I was having a drink with few Asian girlfriends and an American guy today during happy hour. And an interesting topic came up where we were debating if GOOD SEX is the only main factor that keeps a man in a relationship.
Well, from American guy's view, NO. After the good sex wears off, what is it that would keeps the relationship alive. It's intelligence, same interest...etc.
But we ladies knew and argued that it's SEX that starts a relationship and if SEX IS GOOD, the man will stay around.
So is it true or not? What do you ladies and gentlemen think? Is GOOD SEX the only main factor?
I would turn it around and say GOOD SEX is an ingredient in keeping a man around BUT it would be foolhardy to think GOOD SEX alone is going to keep the man around. I recently learnt a new term....BRAIN SEX. So for the smarter ladies who is lucky enough to meet the SMARTER man,GOOD BRAIN SEX is equally essential.On the flip side, BAD SEX is definitely going to make your man un-LOYAL BUT he may still be around...so another round of debate if thats a good thing or NOT...my 2 sense worth ;)
ReplyDeleteI agree with Leeann. Asian women are also more independant and due to all the education and exposure we get nowadays, we also require man that is at least intellectually equal or more superior than us, that's how brain sex works...In most of our contact, i think Asian men are more conservative and less passionate, which western men tend to be more affection and passionate verbally or non verbally, hence "we" feel more connected to them. These are also some of the key factors i believe in.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comments. Good term 'brain sex', meeting of 2 intelligent minds :-)
ReplyDeleteHa ha! I think more clarity needed on Brain Sex! It is very PHYSICAL and INTENSE...ignited by meeting of 2 great minds and clever conversation ;)
ReplyDeleteWell maybe 'brain sex' but men only has enough blood for one head. So when small head took over, there's no more brain!
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