Love too much!

Is there such thing as loving him or her too much? Would there be a danger of the love becoming an obsession? Of getting too attached! One of my girlfriends said that when her man is away, her mind that will start imagining him having fun time, meeting up with girls and taking them home. And as she thinks, she gets very jealous and her imagination starts running wild, up to the extent of thinking how she would question him when he comes back and how she would be punishing him, how they would quarrel.



I thought that is a sickness. Why waste time on thinking of things that are just built up by the mind! I thought it’s just an excuse to pick a fight and to have some attention from him.

What would you advise her? I told her to go out and enjoy herself with friends! Or find something to do, like reading but it seems she’s not into internet or reading.