I happen to read one of the blogger's comment:
"In Asian culture, women treat men better and men treat woman worse.
In Western culture, men are taught to treat women better and women do not have to be as 'nice' to men.
As a result when an Asian woman and a Western man date they are amazed by how nicely the other person is treating them."
DO YOU THINK IT'S STILL TRUE WITH THE MODERN SOCIETY THAT 'Asian women treat men better'!
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Confessions of Married Men, The Secret Lives of Married Men
THIS IS AN INTERESTING ARTICLE. IT’S LONG BUT IT REVEALS WHAT “SOME” HUSBANDS THINK. ALTHOUGH I BELIEVE THAT HUSBANDS, LOVERS OR BOYFRIENDS (“HLB”) ALL THINK THE SAME. YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED OF WHAT YOU’LL LEARNT FROM THESE “HLB” CONFESSIONS
For more detailed reading, copy and paste this link:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article6992299.ece?token=null&offset=0&page=1
OTHERWISE, JUST ENJOY READING THE SNIPPETS :
1ST Confession
Wives, here is a fact you definitely don’t want to know about your husband: he wants to shag your best friend. Not only does he want to shag your best friend, but also your second and third-best friends. (And fourth, fifth, sixth, etc.) There’s nothing personal about this. In fact, in a strange way, he means it as a compliment. You see, one of the many delightful things he has noticed about women is that they tend to associate with women who are on a roughly similar level of pulchritude and general hotness. So what he’s sorta, kinda saying when he fancies your friends is how much he fancies you. But he’d never try articulating any of this to you. It’s just one of those many things that Wives Just Don’t Understand.
OBVIOUSLY WIVES/LOVERS/GIRLFIRENDS (“WLG”) DON’T UNDERSTAND. COS THAT’S SCARY IF ALL MEN THINK LIKE THAT. MEANS LADIES CAN’T BRING THEIR BEST FRIEND HOME!!! AND WHAT NONSENCE THAT IT’S ACTUALLY A COMPLIMENT TO THE “WLG”!!!
Confessions of a Married Man
2ND Confession
Being the main breadwinner has other advantages, too, such as never having to disclose to your wife how much of your earnings you are blowing on your vices. “Sports betting is my fatal addiction,” says Simon. “You can lose so much so quickly. The Ashes cost me an absolute fortune, especially Ponting’s batting. He’s normally so reliable, but towards the end of the series he just wasn’t making the runs. This is the sort of detail you don’t trouble your wife with. But do I feel bad about it? Not really. If you earn a lot, you can afford to lose a bit.”
Kevin, 39, a teacher, has rather less to lose, but he has managed to run up a large credit card bill that he has resolutely kept secret from his wife. “Amazon 1-Click ordering has been my vice. I’m not sure when I’m going to finally clear my debts, but till then, what the wife doesn’t know isn’t going to hurt her, is it?”
For Holden, where expenditure is concerned, the “rule of thirds” applies. “Suppose you’ve blown £600 on a flat-screen TV. When she asks you how much, you tell her £400. It’s exactly what they do with us when we ask them how much their new coat cost, so it seems only fair.”
WELL, LOOKS LIKE THERE’S SIMILIARITY BETWEEN THE TWO SEXES HERE. WE ALL KNOW “WLG” DO THE SAME TOO. AS PER MY EARLIER POSTING 'Is it ok to tell a White Lie...If it's for the Right Reason' “WLG” LIES TOO. "WLG" HIDE WHAT THEY SPEND ON SHOPPING FOR SHOES, BAGS, COSMETICS, JEWELLERIES, ETC. DO YOU THINK YOUR "HLB" EVER LIE TO YOU ON THINGS HE PURCHASED?
3RD Confession
Now, sex, which occupied by far the most important part in all the conversations I had – largely because, as one husband put it, “It’s what we think about more than anything else.
Journalist and author Rod Liddle, himself a reformed roué, says: “I reckon 90 per cent of married men – if they could be guaranteed to get away with it – would have affairs.” And as far as desire is concerned, he is probably right. “God, I’d just love to have some completely meaningless sex with some gorgeous girl I’d met on a business trip,” admits Simon. “But not at the expense of my marriage.”
“It is not natural for a man to be monogamous,” says Steve Wichett, who estimates that over a given period, between 35 per cent and 40 per cent of husbands will have affairs (though other surveys put the figure as high as 60 per cent). “Monogamy is an arrangement he makes with himself, either through reasons of fear or lack of opportunity.”
That’s the problem with us men. No matter how old or ugly we are, no matter how secure and happy we are in our relationships, there’ll always be a small part of us that yearns to answer our atavistic urge to spread our gene pool as widely as we possibly can.
WELL, LOOKS LIKE “WLG” JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT IT. JUST HAVE TO PUT THEMSELVES IN THE SHOE OF HOW THEY JUST CAN’T STOP THINKING OF NEXT SHOPPING! WELL THERE WAS A REPORT THAT ‘MEN THINK ABOUT SEX 5,000 TIMES A YEAR'! LOOKS LIKE THIS CONFESSION IS WELL SUPPORTED. AS LONG HE KEEPS IT TO THINKING, THAT'S FINE!
4TH Confession
“I didn’t have sex with a man until I was 34. At the time, my wife was pregnant with our first child. Before that I’d had girlfriends, and enjoyed the sex, though not as much as I did with men.”
The surprising bit – and Barry should know – was just how many married men out there are secretly gay. “And I don’t mean bisexual. Hardly any men are. They’re just gay men in denial or living a lie,” he says. “It happened more times than you’d ever imagine. I’d go out to parties, bars, clubs, with my wife, and after a few drinks another of the married men would ask if I was gay. Things used to happen from there.”
I WONDER WHICH IS WORST? TO HAVE MY MAN CONFESSED HE HAS AN AFFAIR WITH A GIRL OR THAT HE HAS AN AFFAIR WITH A MAN! HOW ABOUT YOU ALL, EVER THOUGHT OF WHICH IS WORST?
5TH Confession
What the internet does is help us to sublimate our desires in a socially acceptable way,” says Kevin, who thinks his wife probably is aware of his internet porn use, but would prefer to pretend it didn’t happen. According to Godson, internet porn definitely belongs to the category of things it’s best not to mention to your partner.
IF GIVEN A CHOICE BETWEEN HIM SURFING PORN AT HOME OR HE HAVING AN AFFAIR, THEN I RATHER HE SURF PORN. ALTHOUGH SOME MIGHT SAID WHY SHOULD THERE BE A CHOICE? HE SHOULD BE HAPPY, CONTENTED WITHE ME!
6TH Confession
I think women are the most clever, calculated deceivers of all. I remember once still being on top of a girl when she picked up the phone to speak to her boyfriend. I couldn’t believe it. She cancelled his call twice, but then took it the third time he rang.
“What I have learnt from the whole process is that relationships and marriages are not black and white. I never wanted to leave my wife; I love her and we have two lovely children. I am the first to admit that it is a very ‘Have your cake and eat it’ attitude, but I would go as far as to say that, perversely, the website is actually keeping my marriage together. It has put a spring in my step and I am happier at home now that this yearning is fulfilled. How long that will last I don’t know, but at the moment it is ticking all the boxes.”
I SUPPOSE TWO CAN PLAY THE GAME. MEN, TRADITIONALLY BEING ACCEPTED TO CHEAT. NOW WOMEN'S PLAYING THE GAME TOO, ESPECIALLY LIBERATED WOMEN. JUDGING FROM ALL THE PAST COMMENTS IN THOSE BLOGS, THINK WOMEN ARE SURE HAVING MORE FUN NOW :-).
7TH Confession
“I have been married since June, and have already told lots of little white lies. The thing is, sometimes men just have to lie. For example, I was playing cricket with my mates, which my wife – who was then my girlfriend – knew about, and I left all of my kit locked up in the clubhouse. The game went on for a while, and when we finally finished I went back to my bag to find I had 26 missed calls, 11 text messages and 7 voicemails, which started off asking, ‘Where are you?’ and culminated in ‘Why are you avoiding me? The marriage is off.’
THIS IS TYPICAL. AM SURE MOST WOMEN THINK THE SAME IF MEN DON'T ANSWERED THEIR MOBILE PHONE…."HE MUST BE WITH SOME GAL! OR HE MUST BE SHAGGING SOME GAL!" BUT OF COURSE, MANY TIMES, IT'S JUST BEEN GENUINELY CONCERNED. COS WHEN HE DON'T ANSWER, "WLG" BE WORRYING IF HE'S ALRIGHT.
8TH Confession
These days, I don’t lie about anything. I’ve learnt from bitter experience that you will either get found out or the lie sits there and congeals. When I was married the first time, I wasn’t entirely faithful; I told porkies about all sorts of things. In the days before mobile phones, it was a lot easier. You could call from a phone box in Dartford, and pretend you were in Edinburgh on business, and she was none the wiser, so long as you could remember the lie and stick to it.
“I almost got caught once, though. My first wife went away for a few days, and a female friend came round to, er, play. When she left, I cleaned the flat top to toe. My wife came back, walked in and said, ‘Why is this place so clean? Why have you spring-cleaned? You’ve been up to something.’ She went into our bedroom, picked up a hairbrush and found a long blonde hair in it. My wife was Japanese with short, black hair.
I WOULD DO THE SAME TOO, IF I RETURNED HOME TO SEE THINGS EXCEPTIONALLY CLEAN WHEN IT'S NOT HIM HABIT TO CLEAN UP!!! HE MUST BE UP TO SOMETHING! :-)
For more detailed reading, copy and paste this link:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article6992299.ece?token=null&offset=0&page=1
OTHERWISE, JUST ENJOY READING THE SNIPPETS :
1ST Confession
Wives, here is a fact you definitely don’t want to know about your husband: he wants to shag your best friend. Not only does he want to shag your best friend, but also your second and third-best friends. (And fourth, fifth, sixth, etc.) There’s nothing personal about this. In fact, in a strange way, he means it as a compliment. You see, one of the many delightful things he has noticed about women is that they tend to associate with women who are on a roughly similar level of pulchritude and general hotness. So what he’s sorta, kinda saying when he fancies your friends is how much he fancies you. But he’d never try articulating any of this to you. It’s just one of those many things that Wives Just Don’t Understand.
OBVIOUSLY WIVES/LOVERS/GIRLFIRENDS (“WLG”) DON’T UNDERSTAND. COS THAT’S SCARY IF ALL MEN THINK LIKE THAT. MEANS LADIES CAN’T BRING THEIR BEST FRIEND HOME!!! AND WHAT NONSENCE THAT IT’S ACTUALLY A COMPLIMENT TO THE “WLG”!!!
Confessions of a Married Man
2ND Confession
Being the main breadwinner has other advantages, too, such as never having to disclose to your wife how much of your earnings you are blowing on your vices. “Sports betting is my fatal addiction,” says Simon. “You can lose so much so quickly. The Ashes cost me an absolute fortune, especially Ponting’s batting. He’s normally so reliable, but towards the end of the series he just wasn’t making the runs. This is the sort of detail you don’t trouble your wife with. But do I feel bad about it? Not really. If you earn a lot, you can afford to lose a bit.”
Kevin, 39, a teacher, has rather less to lose, but he has managed to run up a large credit card bill that he has resolutely kept secret from his wife. “Amazon 1-Click ordering has been my vice. I’m not sure when I’m going to finally clear my debts, but till then, what the wife doesn’t know isn’t going to hurt her, is it?”
For Holden, where expenditure is concerned, the “rule of thirds” applies. “Suppose you’ve blown £600 on a flat-screen TV. When she asks you how much, you tell her £400. It’s exactly what they do with us when we ask them how much their new coat cost, so it seems only fair.”
WELL, LOOKS LIKE THERE’S SIMILIARITY BETWEEN THE TWO SEXES HERE. WE ALL KNOW “WLG” DO THE SAME TOO. AS PER MY EARLIER POSTING 'Is it ok to tell a White Lie...If it's for the Right Reason' “WLG” LIES TOO. "WLG" HIDE WHAT THEY SPEND ON SHOPPING FOR SHOES, BAGS, COSMETICS, JEWELLERIES, ETC. DO YOU THINK YOUR "HLB" EVER LIE TO YOU ON THINGS HE PURCHASED?
3RD Confession
Now, sex, which occupied by far the most important part in all the conversations I had – largely because, as one husband put it, “It’s what we think about more than anything else.
Journalist and author Rod Liddle, himself a reformed roué, says: “I reckon 90 per cent of married men – if they could be guaranteed to get away with it – would have affairs.” And as far as desire is concerned, he is probably right. “God, I’d just love to have some completely meaningless sex with some gorgeous girl I’d met on a business trip,” admits Simon. “But not at the expense of my marriage.”
“It is not natural for a man to be monogamous,” says Steve Wichett, who estimates that over a given period, between 35 per cent and 40 per cent of husbands will have affairs (though other surveys put the figure as high as 60 per cent). “Monogamy is an arrangement he makes with himself, either through reasons of fear or lack of opportunity.”
That’s the problem with us men. No matter how old or ugly we are, no matter how secure and happy we are in our relationships, there’ll always be a small part of us that yearns to answer our atavistic urge to spread our gene pool as widely as we possibly can.
WELL, LOOKS LIKE “WLG” JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT IT. JUST HAVE TO PUT THEMSELVES IN THE SHOE OF HOW THEY JUST CAN’T STOP THINKING OF NEXT SHOPPING! WELL THERE WAS A REPORT THAT ‘MEN THINK ABOUT SEX 5,000 TIMES A YEAR'! LOOKS LIKE THIS CONFESSION IS WELL SUPPORTED. AS LONG HE KEEPS IT TO THINKING, THAT'S FINE!
4TH Confession
“I didn’t have sex with a man until I was 34. At the time, my wife was pregnant with our first child. Before that I’d had girlfriends, and enjoyed the sex, though not as much as I did with men.”
The surprising bit – and Barry should know – was just how many married men out there are secretly gay. “And I don’t mean bisexual. Hardly any men are. They’re just gay men in denial or living a lie,” he says. “It happened more times than you’d ever imagine. I’d go out to parties, bars, clubs, with my wife, and after a few drinks another of the married men would ask if I was gay. Things used to happen from there.”
I WONDER WHICH IS WORST? TO HAVE MY MAN CONFESSED HE HAS AN AFFAIR WITH A GIRL OR THAT HE HAS AN AFFAIR WITH A MAN! HOW ABOUT YOU ALL, EVER THOUGHT OF WHICH IS WORST?
5TH Confession
What the internet does is help us to sublimate our desires in a socially acceptable way,” says Kevin, who thinks his wife probably is aware of his internet porn use, but would prefer to pretend it didn’t happen. According to Godson, internet porn definitely belongs to the category of things it’s best not to mention to your partner.
IF GIVEN A CHOICE BETWEEN HIM SURFING PORN AT HOME OR HE HAVING AN AFFAIR, THEN I RATHER HE SURF PORN. ALTHOUGH SOME MIGHT SAID WHY SHOULD THERE BE A CHOICE? HE SHOULD BE HAPPY, CONTENTED WITHE ME!
6TH Confession
I think women are the most clever, calculated deceivers of all. I remember once still being on top of a girl when she picked up the phone to speak to her boyfriend. I couldn’t believe it. She cancelled his call twice, but then took it the third time he rang.
“What I have learnt from the whole process is that relationships and marriages are not black and white. I never wanted to leave my wife; I love her and we have two lovely children. I am the first to admit that it is a very ‘Have your cake and eat it’ attitude, but I would go as far as to say that, perversely, the website is actually keeping my marriage together. It has put a spring in my step and I am happier at home now that this yearning is fulfilled. How long that will last I don’t know, but at the moment it is ticking all the boxes.”
I SUPPOSE TWO CAN PLAY THE GAME. MEN, TRADITIONALLY BEING ACCEPTED TO CHEAT. NOW WOMEN'S PLAYING THE GAME TOO, ESPECIALLY LIBERATED WOMEN. JUDGING FROM ALL THE PAST COMMENTS IN THOSE BLOGS, THINK WOMEN ARE SURE HAVING MORE FUN NOW :-).
7TH Confession
“I have been married since June, and have already told lots of little white lies. The thing is, sometimes men just have to lie. For example, I was playing cricket with my mates, which my wife – who was then my girlfriend – knew about, and I left all of my kit locked up in the clubhouse. The game went on for a while, and when we finally finished I went back to my bag to find I had 26 missed calls, 11 text messages and 7 voicemails, which started off asking, ‘Where are you?’ and culminated in ‘Why are you avoiding me? The marriage is off.’
THIS IS TYPICAL. AM SURE MOST WOMEN THINK THE SAME IF MEN DON'T ANSWERED THEIR MOBILE PHONE…."HE MUST BE WITH SOME GAL! OR HE MUST BE SHAGGING SOME GAL!" BUT OF COURSE, MANY TIMES, IT'S JUST BEEN GENUINELY CONCERNED. COS WHEN HE DON'T ANSWER, "WLG" BE WORRYING IF HE'S ALRIGHT.
8TH Confession
These days, I don’t lie about anything. I’ve learnt from bitter experience that you will either get found out or the lie sits there and congeals. When I was married the first time, I wasn’t entirely faithful; I told porkies about all sorts of things. In the days before mobile phones, it was a lot easier. You could call from a phone box in Dartford, and pretend you were in Edinburgh on business, and she was none the wiser, so long as you could remember the lie and stick to it.
“I almost got caught once, though. My first wife went away for a few days, and a female friend came round to, er, play. When she left, I cleaned the flat top to toe. My wife came back, walked in and said, ‘Why is this place so clean? Why have you spring-cleaned? You’ve been up to something.’ She went into our bedroom, picked up a hairbrush and found a long blonde hair in it. My wife was Japanese with short, black hair.
I WOULD DO THE SAME TOO, IF I RETURNED HOME TO SEE THINGS EXCEPTIONALLY CLEAN WHEN IT'S NOT HIM HABIT TO CLEAN UP!!! HE MUST BE UP TO SOMETHING! :-)
Friday, December 25, 2009
Why men cheat? Want to know more of cheating men?
HERE WE GO AGAIN. TIGER & HIS AFFAIRS. "Why would a man who has everything -- a beautiful wife, loving family, a fortune estimated at $1 billion -- endanger it all to have affairs with women that don't hold a candle to his wife?"
And this article by Jed Diamond, once again try to find excuses for men to cheat. Blaming it on the evolution, men's Y chromosome. That men will be men, that it's a men's thing. That "men are dumb beasts and all they want is sex." And so most men are just wondering what are all the uproar is about. "You can't expect a man to have sex with only one woman. It's not natural." WHAT BULLSHIT!
And he mentioned that all cultures seem to agree that "men consistently express a fondness for youthful women - full lips, clear and smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, these women are universally sought after."
IT IS JUST SO UNFAIR. WOMEN SACRIFICE SO MUCH, TO GIVE A HEIR TO THEIR MEN, AND IN THE PROGRESS, LOSING THEIR YOUTHFUL BEAUTY JUST TO ENSURE HIS GENE IS CARRY ON.
SO WOULD A FATHER FEEL HAPPY WHEN AN OLDER MAN, OLDER THEN HIM, SEX UP WITH HIS DAUGHTER? AFTER ALL SHE'S YOUTHFUL RIGHT? SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE IDEA, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE FXXXXXX OTHER MEN'S YOUTHFUL DAUGHTER!
The Asian women on the other hand thinks that 'it's better not to know of his affairs. Asian women believe that 'what you don't know, it doesn't hurt'. Is that why our men know that he can get away with it. Because women themselves let them get away with it? I too, am guilty of it.
PS: IF YOU WANT TO READ MORE OF THIS ARTICLE THAT SEEMS TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT "MEN ARE JUST USELESS, JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO THINK ONCE THEIR SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL" COPY AND PASTE THE LINK!
http://www.thirdage.com/personal-growth/tiger-transgresses-5-little-known-secrets-to-why-good-men-cheat?page=0%2C0&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl_relationships-love_20091224&utm_campaign=thirdage
And this article by Jed Diamond, once again try to find excuses for men to cheat. Blaming it on the evolution, men's Y chromosome. That men will be men, that it's a men's thing. That "men are dumb beasts and all they want is sex." And so most men are just wondering what are all the uproar is about. "You can't expect a man to have sex with only one woman. It's not natural." WHAT BULLSHIT!
And he mentioned that all cultures seem to agree that "men consistently express a fondness for youthful women - full lips, clear and smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, these women are universally sought after."
IT IS JUST SO UNFAIR. WOMEN SACRIFICE SO MUCH, TO GIVE A HEIR TO THEIR MEN, AND IN THE PROGRESS, LOSING THEIR YOUTHFUL BEAUTY JUST TO ENSURE HIS GENE IS CARRY ON.
SO WOULD A FATHER FEEL HAPPY WHEN AN OLDER MAN, OLDER THEN HIM, SEX UP WITH HIS DAUGHTER? AFTER ALL SHE'S YOUTHFUL RIGHT? SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE IDEA, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE FXXXXXX OTHER MEN'S YOUTHFUL DAUGHTER!
The Asian women on the other hand thinks that 'it's better not to know of his affairs. Asian women believe that 'what you don't know, it doesn't hurt'. Is that why our men know that he can get away with it. Because women themselves let them get away with it? I too, am guilty of it.
PS: IF YOU WANT TO READ MORE OF THIS ARTICLE THAT SEEMS TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT "MEN ARE JUST USELESS, JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO THINK ONCE THEIR SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL" COPY AND PASTE THE LINK!
http://www.thirdage.com/personal-growth/tiger-transgresses-5-little-known-secrets-to-why-good-men-cheat?page=0%2C0&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl_relationships-love_20091224&utm_campaign=thirdage
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Expression of Love
My friend just shared with me this poem, written by her new boyfriend. She felt heartbroken as she thought that her boyfriend only think of her as sex object. Personally I felt the same as he could have written it with a bit of style, class with some love or romantic intonations instead of just straight vulgarity. Think the boyfriend must be very horny when he wrote this :-). What do any of you think?
WHITE SUGAR
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your lips.
Then give me your tongue,
Then give me your drips.
You are my possession,
Open your holes
To hot semen jets
When I take control.
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your tits.
I'll suck your nipples
Each time you submit.
Lay down, spread wide, prepare
love tunnel slut.
Your butterfly wings
Will flutter on nuts.
White sugar, white sugar,
Give me your heart.
I have your body,
Now soul must impart.
My candy orgasm
cums so abrupt.
Sweet love envelopes,
each time we erupt.
WHITE SUGAR
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your lips.
Then give me your tongue,
Then give me your drips.
You are my possession,
Open your holes
To hot semen jets
When I take control.
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your tits.
I'll suck your nipples
Each time you submit.
Lay down, spread wide, prepare
love tunnel slut.
Your butterfly wings
Will flutter on nuts.
White sugar, white sugar,
Give me your heart.
I have your body,
Now soul must impart.
My candy orgasm
cums so abrupt.
Sweet love envelopes,
each time we erupt.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Younger wife = Marital bliss
Apparently, the secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. And if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age.
However, I would say that ‘mutual aspiration of wanting the marriage to work’ is the basis for successful marriage. It’s takes two to want to make the marriage works and that means ‘tolerance’ as there’s no such thing as a perfect man or woman.
Read this interesting article.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8325579.stm
'Younger wife' for marital bliss
Beyonce and Jay-Z (Pop star Beyonce and rapper husband Jay-Z married last year)
The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z, 39. The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research. The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship. Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.
For better or worse
They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher. Add in a better education for the woman - Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z - and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.
Those who have never divorced fare better too. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees. Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values." But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".
HAVE YOUR SAY
Not so long ago the husband had to be older than his wife in order to be able to support a family, but such criteria are not so relevant now women have been educated to be able to command good jobs, so I suggest the basis for a successful marriage should be tolerance
Marion Monahan, Bristol
Send us your comments
However, I would say that ‘mutual aspiration of wanting the marriage to work’ is the basis for successful marriage. It’s takes two to want to make the marriage works and that means ‘tolerance’ as there’s no such thing as a perfect man or woman.
Read this interesting article.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8325579.stm
'Younger wife' for marital bliss
Beyonce and Jay-Z (Pop star Beyonce and rapper husband Jay-Z married last year)
The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z, 39. The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research. The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship. Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.
For better or worse
They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher. Add in a better education for the woman - Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z - and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.
Those who have never divorced fare better too. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees. Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values." But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".
HAVE YOUR SAY
Not so long ago the husband had to be older than his wife in order to be able to support a family, but such criteria are not so relevant now women have been educated to be able to command good jobs, so I suggest the basis for a successful marriage should be tolerance
Marion Monahan, Bristol
Send us your comments
Sunday, October 25, 2009
How to beat a cheating husband?
Let's face it. All women subconsciously know what they should do to keep their husband, boyfriend, and lover. But it's that one question which many women are asking 'why must women be the one to take the effort to keep their men'?
Traditionally Asian women have been taught to accept men's infidelity. I remember my grandfather has two wives and each wife bored him 13 children. So he has 26 children. And of course his 26 children multiply further, so you can imagine what a grand, big affair he had during his funeral. His children multiply when they married, so he has more then 70 grand kids.
In the movie 'Raise the Red Lantern', all the wives has to stand outside their door every evening, and they be praying that the man will stop in front of their door with the red lantern. It means he's spending the night with her. What a sad situation then. And that's because those days, women aren't independent.
But then even in these days when women are much more independent and they have their careers, we still see how women can be destroyed by selfish men. All in the name of 'love'. The advise given here in this link is good and makes sense. As I believe finally it's based on two options - it's either you want to keep your man or you don't want to keep your man!
http://www.cheating-boyfriend.net/marriage/marriage-infidelity-%E2%80%93-secrets-to-beating-a-cheating-husband/
Traditionally Asian women have been taught to accept men's infidelity. I remember my grandfather has two wives and each wife bored him 13 children. So he has 26 children. And of course his 26 children multiply further, so you can imagine what a grand, big affair he had during his funeral. His children multiply when they married, so he has more then 70 grand kids.
In the movie 'Raise the Red Lantern', all the wives has to stand outside their door every evening, and they be praying that the man will stop in front of their door with the red lantern. It means he's spending the night with her. What a sad situation then. And that's because those days, women aren't independent.
But then even in these days when women are much more independent and they have their careers, we still see how women can be destroyed by selfish men. All in the name of 'love'. The advise given here in this link is good and makes sense. As I believe finally it's based on two options - it's either you want to keep your man or you don't want to keep your man!
http://www.cheating-boyfriend.net/marriage/marriage-infidelity-%E2%80%93-secrets-to-beating-a-cheating-husband/
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Women's Growing Love of Porn!
So women are watching more porn’s and loving it these days? Interesting especially when Asian women are perceived to be more conservative. Asian women always seems to carry that demure, shy look that makes the man feels weak and want to protect them. Has this change or maybe just the China women that still try to portray that demure, shy, sweet looking, soft-spoken damsels in distress? And would you openly admit that you love watching porn or you watch you prior to sex to get some excitement. Personally I don't feel anything now compared to those younger days when I was just exposed to porn. Now I would say that 'descriptive words' works better, hence, maybe reading porn might be more interesting. Share your thoughts.
http://therumpus.net/2009/07/ladies-love-of-porn-is-changing-the-market/
http://therumpus.net/2009/07/ladies-love-of-porn-is-changing-the-market/
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men
Wow…. am so proud to be an Asian Women after reading this blog.
http://asianonlinedatingtips.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-western-men-get-married-to-asian.html
Do click on this link or copy and paste. It’s interesting. My comments on those 6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men.
(1) Simple and Easy to Please – Yes I would think so but women are still women, bit it Asian or Western. Just remember not to take them for granted.
(2) Not Aggressive – True but Asian Women uses her charm to get what she wants. It’s the soft approach that’s unique to Asian Women.
(3) Plain and Natural – The description of pearly snow-white skin rings so true in the China women. I too am envious.
(4) What You See is What You Get - Hmmm…think as in all relationship, you discover more of each other as you progress.
(5) One of the boys – Just Asian Women nature to fit into the Western world.
(6) The Loving Asian Woman – It’s due to the teachings passed down from our mum I suppose. That man is the King of the House.
http://asianonlinedatingtips.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-western-men-get-married-to-asian.html
Do click on this link or copy and paste. It’s interesting. My comments on those 6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men.
(1) Simple and Easy to Please – Yes I would think so but women are still women, bit it Asian or Western. Just remember not to take them for granted.
(2) Not Aggressive – True but Asian Women uses her charm to get what she wants. It’s the soft approach that’s unique to Asian Women.
(3) Plain and Natural – The description of pearly snow-white skin rings so true in the China women. I too am envious.
(4) What You See is What You Get - Hmmm…think as in all relationship, you discover more of each other as you progress.
(5) One of the boys – Just Asian Women nature to fit into the Western world.
(6) The Loving Asian Woman – It’s due to the teachings passed down from our mum I suppose. That man is the King of the House.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Asian Women trumps over Western Women
Marie Claire’s August issue said, “Call it the Woody Allen effect, when the venerable director scandalously left Mia Farrow for her adopted daughter, South Korean-born Soon-Yin Previn – 35 years his junior! And then there’s - media baron Rupert Murdoch with fresh-faced Wendi Deng—17 days after finalizing his divorce from his second wife. CBS head Leslie Moonves wed TV news anchor Julie Chen; Oscar winner Nicolas Cage married half-his-age third wife Alice Kim; billionaire George Soros coupled up with violinist Jennifer Chun; producer Brian Grazer courted concert pianist Chau-Giang Thi Nguyen; investment magnate Bruce Wasserstein coupled with fourth wife Angela Chao; the pending vows between venture capitalist Vivi Nevo and Chinese actress Ziyi Zhang;” and…not to mention many other normal average Western men who had wed or are courting Asian women.
With so much interest and with the cards laid out so clearly on the power of Asian women trumping the Western women, aren’t Western women curious and wonder what’s the big deal about Asian women?
Asian women are petite, small breasted, normal features like small eyes, flat nose…and the list go on. Not to mention that Asian women can also be referred to as the poor cousins of the Western women by the fact that Asia to some Westerners, are still thought to be laid back, living in poor conditions, the stigma of poor toilet hygiene, etc. Also, stereotyped as submissive, domesticated, gentle, soft-spoken, devoted, easy-going and to some extend could be thought as not too intelligent or too smart to be belligerent. Plus men have always fantasized Western women. I remembered that most of the porn movies that I was exposed to are always on Western women. They are looked upon as sensual women, great and adventurous in bed (due to the many porns), sexy looking, and glamorous, confident, assertive etc. With so many plus points, one would think that Western women would have trumped it all over their Asian sisters.
But in reality I believed that men, whether they are Western men or Asian men, they all need that feeling of been in control, someone to boost their ego and that, is what Asian women are very good it. The image of Asian women, submissive, waiting at home, doing all the domestic chores, and yet ever ready with beer, wet towels and a head & neck massage waiting for their man to come home certainly appeals to all macho men. It’s a sign of “I’m the Master of the House”.
With so much interest and with the cards laid out so clearly on the power of Asian women trumping the Western women, aren’t Western women curious and wonder what’s the big deal about Asian women?
Asian women are petite, small breasted, normal features like small eyes, flat nose…and the list go on. Not to mention that Asian women can also be referred to as the poor cousins of the Western women by the fact that Asia to some Westerners, are still thought to be laid back, living in poor conditions, the stigma of poor toilet hygiene, etc. Also, stereotyped as submissive, domesticated, gentle, soft-spoken, devoted, easy-going and to some extend could be thought as not too intelligent or too smart to be belligerent. Plus men have always fantasized Western women. I remembered that most of the porn movies that I was exposed to are always on Western women. They are looked upon as sensual women, great and adventurous in bed (due to the many porns), sexy looking, and glamorous, confident, assertive etc. With so many plus points, one would think that Western women would have trumped it all over their Asian sisters.
But in reality I believed that men, whether they are Western men or Asian men, they all need that feeling of been in control, someone to boost their ego and that, is what Asian women are very good it. The image of Asian women, submissive, waiting at home, doing all the domestic chores, and yet ever ready with beer, wet towels and a head & neck massage waiting for their man to come home certainly appeals to all macho men. It’s a sign of “I’m the Master of the House”.
Monday, September 7, 2009
Asian Women's Super Clean Freak Husbands
During one of our girls' lunch outing, two of my girlfriends revealed that their husbands are "super clean neat freak". Everything has to be in their proper places, and they just lose their mind if things are not arranged orderly. And with little kids at home, how can things be in order. And each of my girlfriends is up to their neck, to be patient and to maintain calm in the family when the husbands go on a 'clean neat rampant' ranting. Whilst Asian women are known to be accommodating, tolerant but it’s up to a certain stage and there’s always a danger of a breaking point.
One of them has this point of view that like it or not, it’s always still good to have a man in the house, even if he’s not the ideal husband. Whilst the other, had plan to leave and live her own life once the kids are grown.
One of the strong key points of ‘most’ Asian women is that children still come first. As long the marriage is still bearable, Asian women will tolerate…. at least up to a point.
One of them has this point of view that like it or not, it’s always still good to have a man in the house, even if he’s not the ideal husband. Whilst the other, had plan to leave and live her own life once the kids are grown.
One of the strong key points of ‘most’ Asian women is that children still come first. As long the marriage is still bearable, Asian women will tolerate…. at least up to a point.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Men lose their mind speaking to pretty women and big breasted women
This article is interesting. Ask your man if it's true that "they can't think straight when they see a pretty woman"? And 99% would said it is although they probably won't admit it cos it means they aren't loyal right :-). And all women know for sure, the first glance of men on women is women's breasts. I have a friend that has this set of knockers...that men just zoom on immediately and if we girls are with her, we are just invisible. Well there's this comment that girls from Hong Kong, China, South Korea, Indonesia & Philippines tend to have small boobs, which is about 32A - 33B; whereas girls from Japan, Taiwan, Singapore, Malaysia have bigger boobs, which is around 34B - 36C. Western women would be the 34C - 36D range. Actually it's all stereotyped by the media and the porn. What we want to know is that if Asian women's breasts are smaller compared to Western women, won't then Western women have better advantage? Afterall men are such visual creatures!
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6132718/Men-lose-their-minds-speaking-to-pretty-women.html
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6132718/Men-lose-their-minds-speaking-to-pretty-women.html
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