Am not sure if any of you have heard about this “perfect” woman? She’s willowy 5 feet 7 and 120 pounds. She can chat on any subject with you. She can even impersonate personalities of movie stars! Now isn’t that a dream come true for men whose being fantasizing about making out with movie stars! What’s even more important to men, she’s ever ready for sex, anytime! The men won't hear of “Sorry Honey, I have a headache tonight”. Now isn’t that “perfect” to men, who are always so preoccupied with sex! And even more “perfect”, men can just switch her off if she talks too much or if she starts nagging.
Meeeeet Roxxxy, claimed to be the world's most sophisticated talking female sex robot. And she’s yours for life, for only a mere USD7,000!
And as I read this article, I thought this would be “perfect” to women. Think about it. Instead of thinking negatively that men soon can substitute us, real flesh and warm blooded women, am thinking that this might just be a “perfect” gift for husbands!
Imagine a typical working wife’s schedule. She gets up early morning at 6am. Wake up the kids, getting them ready for school. She had to prepare breakfast for the kids. Next tidy up the house before she gets herself ready to leave for office. She spent the next 8 to 10 hours in office. By 6pm, she has to leave to pick up the kids from babysitter. Once home, she cooked simple dinner, had dinner with the kids, cleaned up the kitchen thereafter. Then she puts in the clothes into the washer. Check that the kids do their homework. Then put them to bed. And just as she’s thinking that finally she’s going to have a good night rest, the husband wants to make love.
Am sure some of you, women readers, can relate this to your daily life. How many times, you had to give some excuses. And for some of you, you will accomodate your husband's wishes but with lack of passion as you are just physically, mentally tired. Or worse, you might just fell asleep in the midst of the love making, which is an insult to his ego. And no matter how you try to be the “perfect” woman to him, he can certainly sensed your reluctancy, your lack of enthusiasm.
So now imagine, if the working wife has this “perfect Roxxxy” woman at home. She don’t has to worry that eventually her man is going to get a lover, a mistress or worst still, go to a prostitute! There’s certainly no fear of competition for her of this “perfect Roxxxy” woman. “Perfect Roxxxy” is her temporary ally. “Perfect Roxxxy” can keep him company whilst she enjoy a quiet moment of peace, go for her spa, or spend time with her girlfriends, whilst he gets himself entertained with this “perfect Roxxxy” that will pander to every sex wish that he wants.
So what do you ladies think? Would you be jealous of “perfect Roxxxy” if your man has one?
And if there’s such an ‘emotional companion’ for men, I would like to think that it’ll be great if there’s also an ‘emotional companion’ for women too! Would ladies out there want to owe a “perfect Rocky” too?
For more on “perfect Roxxxy” article, click and copy this link:
http://edition.cnn.com/2010/TECH/02/01/sex.robot/
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Thursday, February 4, 2010
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Married Men has Mistresses. Now Married Women are keeping Mister!
We all heard and talk about how some rich ladies, the 'tai tais' or the 'Datins' that keeps toy boys. Well, this article below confirmed that time has certainly changed. If you remember my posting 'TO CHEAT OR NOT TO CHEAT', it's almost the same case. Our Grace, the typical housewife is contemplating of this 'young hairstylist', Prince to be her toy boy :-). And judging from all the support given in the comments posted from all of you readers, am sure Grace is very much tempted. Am just curious, has she had her first taste of sexual escapade yet?
And would any of you reader (ladies I meant), be tempted to 'keep a Mister'? For first timer, there's always the fear and excitement of been caught. The advice given in this article is that you need an alibi :-). So get your girlfriends hook on to the idea too, IF you are in it already or contemplating.
To me, women being women, there's always the danger of getting emotionally involved. So far, I have yet to hear of any women that said they could just have sex continuously with this same guy without getting emotionally involved. Unless, it's just a one-night stand and how many one night stand that any women or men can find. Be prepared to have heartaches as well as I believe women somehow are still possessive. Doesn’t matter they are cheating, they still want their ‘mister’ to be faithful, all the more if you are keeping this toy boy comfy. I would IF I am doing that!
Here's to more liberated sex for all women this new decade, in this 21st century! Enjoy the article.
To read more, just COPY & PASTE this link :
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6975683.ece
""We discuss the rules of keeping a male mistress, more precisely, a “mister”, in her 4WD during shopping expedition in a smart provincial town. It starts snowing, the engine runs, the heated seats warm the rear of her expensive jeans. She’s tall, dark and good-looking, as much through gym sweat and impeccable grooming as genetic good fortune.
She’s friendly, sweet almost, and buzzing with positive energy. When she talks about a series of intensely physical and largely unemotional relationships with men, she makes it sound demure and ladylike. Even when she is saying something like, “My lovers have to be good-looking and fit. You know, intelligent and fun to be with, and very good at oral sex.”
Jilly has echoes of Vera Farmiga’s character, Alex, in the new George Clooney film Up in the Air. The sexually assured executive aces the similarly no-strings-please Clooney character with the line: “Just think of me as you, but with a vagina.” When he falls in love with her, it is only to discover she is married with kids. Farmiga says she loved the Alex character because, “when a female character is so demanding and unapologetic [sexually], she usually lacks some dignity. It was cool to see someone who was completely self-possessed, had class, had depth and yet was operating in a very masculine way”.
Jilly does not see herself as acting in a very masculine way — rather, as creating the best possible situation to preserve her happiness as an individual, and as part of a well-enough-functioning family unit. “I have a comfortable life, I have a kind husband and lovely children. Why would I hurt them? My husband’s a difficult man, but I am happy. We share our long-standing in-jokes and rows, we are great friends. Every other word bar love describes our marriage.”
Sex with her husband is both rare and unexciting, but she remained completely faithful to him until, quite unexpectedly, she had an affair with a slightly younger widower she plays golf with. “It was liberating, but it was also dangerous. Very consciously, I knew this was good for me. Not long after calling time on the affair I started looking online. I love men, I love their company, yet as a stay-at-home mother you find your only social life is with your kids or girlfriends. But much as I do enjoy getting the odd lovely text from a man, really the only reason I do this is for the sex.
“In choosing a man I am measured and calm. What I want are peccadilloes, not a full-blown affair. You need to find someone you can get to know and feel comfortable with, because things get better when you know someone. I met a lot of men, some just weren’t experienced enough — I never wanted to be a Mrs Robinson figure. Others thought they could handle a married woman, but they’d start feeling guilt, worry and fear of my husband’s shotgun. It’s a delicate balance. You need the chemistry, but you have to watch it — if the chemistry is too good then you will feel like you are falling in love. When the sex gets very intense it tends to seed emotional ties.”
This avoidance of too much emotion seems a key rule in the decorous affair. As one man I know says, “I love a dalliance with an older married woman because they have more to lose than me. We are also wise enough not to get too attached.”
So does Jilly ever feel guilty? “Initially I felt very bad about deceiving my family. I find all the subterfuge awful. Then I thought, sod it, you’ve been an unselfish devoted mother and corporate wife for years. Now I think it does me good, makes me a more pleasant person the rest of the time. If I had a decent sexual relationship with my husband, I wouldn’t do this.”
In the 10 years since she started her extramarital affairs, she has told only one friend, a fellow adulteress, and they provided each other with alibis. Other alibi opportunities come in the form of having genuine hobbies. “You can’t just suddenly make up a new time-consuming passion though, that’s going to look suspicious.”
Mostly, though, she sees her lovers not too frequently, less than once a week, and when her husband is away. She has also found that younger men are the best option. “They have no interest in emotional ties, they are safe, and they are far more likely to consider a woman’s orgasm as important. And they have hair.”
The field of infidelity is a wide one and includes anything from paying for sex to full-blown, head-over-heels, second-life lovers. In Jilly there is a calculated, masculine steel we do not generally associate with feminine love. But there is also a strict and respectful gentleness and respect for preserving the integrity of her love for her family, her husband, and, indeed, herself. In her we see the masculine laws of the mistress redrawn in a more tender feminine way. It is hard to judge her.
THE OTHER SIDE
Arran is a carpenter in his early twenties and got involved with married women when they started brazenly approaching him at gyms. “I don’t want a relationship, and married women are uncomplicated. They know exactly what they want. Some women say they aren’t married, but there are telltale signs — they compartmentalise their lives. Generally they are in their thirties or forties, their husbands have got out of shape or lost interest or are simply not adventurous enough for their wives.
I was in a sporty gang at school, and most of us are at it with married women. To an extent they pass us around. I don’t care. I’ve got two on the go at the moment, one for six months, the other a bit longer. I don’t let them buy me presents. Married women already tend to be very dominant, and I don’t want them having a hold on me.”
Arran’s rules of the game:
(1) Don’t let them control you
(2) Never contact them unless they ask you to
(3) Don’t get hung up about when you are going to see them. Be adaptable and be available during the day
(4) Let them take the lead and tell you what they want
(5) Don’t take it seriously. It’s fun, just enjoy the sex; in my experience, it’s a lot better than any single girl of your own age is going to give you
And would any of you reader (ladies I meant), be tempted to 'keep a Mister'? For first timer, there's always the fear and excitement of been caught. The advice given in this article is that you need an alibi :-). So get your girlfriends hook on to the idea too, IF you are in it already or contemplating.
To me, women being women, there's always the danger of getting emotionally involved. So far, I have yet to hear of any women that said they could just have sex continuously with this same guy without getting emotionally involved. Unless, it's just a one-night stand and how many one night stand that any women or men can find. Be prepared to have heartaches as well as I believe women somehow are still possessive. Doesn’t matter they are cheating, they still want their ‘mister’ to be faithful, all the more if you are keeping this toy boy comfy. I would IF I am doing that!
Here's to more liberated sex for all women this new decade, in this 21st century! Enjoy the article.
To read more, just COPY & PASTE this link :
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6975683.ece
""We discuss the rules of keeping a male mistress, more precisely, a “mister”, in her 4WD during shopping expedition in a smart provincial town. It starts snowing, the engine runs, the heated seats warm the rear of her expensive jeans. She’s tall, dark and good-looking, as much through gym sweat and impeccable grooming as genetic good fortune.
She’s friendly, sweet almost, and buzzing with positive energy. When she talks about a series of intensely physical and largely unemotional relationships with men, she makes it sound demure and ladylike. Even when she is saying something like, “My lovers have to be good-looking and fit. You know, intelligent and fun to be with, and very good at oral sex.”
Jilly has echoes of Vera Farmiga’s character, Alex, in the new George Clooney film Up in the Air. The sexually assured executive aces the similarly no-strings-please Clooney character with the line: “Just think of me as you, but with a vagina.” When he falls in love with her, it is only to discover she is married with kids. Farmiga says she loved the Alex character because, “when a female character is so demanding and unapologetic [sexually], she usually lacks some dignity. It was cool to see someone who was completely self-possessed, had class, had depth and yet was operating in a very masculine way”.
Jilly does not see herself as acting in a very masculine way — rather, as creating the best possible situation to preserve her happiness as an individual, and as part of a well-enough-functioning family unit. “I have a comfortable life, I have a kind husband and lovely children. Why would I hurt them? My husband’s a difficult man, but I am happy. We share our long-standing in-jokes and rows, we are great friends. Every other word bar love describes our marriage.”
Sex with her husband is both rare and unexciting, but she remained completely faithful to him until, quite unexpectedly, she had an affair with a slightly younger widower she plays golf with. “It was liberating, but it was also dangerous. Very consciously, I knew this was good for me. Not long after calling time on the affair I started looking online. I love men, I love their company, yet as a stay-at-home mother you find your only social life is with your kids or girlfriends. But much as I do enjoy getting the odd lovely text from a man, really the only reason I do this is for the sex.
“In choosing a man I am measured and calm. What I want are peccadilloes, not a full-blown affair. You need to find someone you can get to know and feel comfortable with, because things get better when you know someone. I met a lot of men, some just weren’t experienced enough — I never wanted to be a Mrs Robinson figure. Others thought they could handle a married woman, but they’d start feeling guilt, worry and fear of my husband’s shotgun. It’s a delicate balance. You need the chemistry, but you have to watch it — if the chemistry is too good then you will feel like you are falling in love. When the sex gets very intense it tends to seed emotional ties.”
This avoidance of too much emotion seems a key rule in the decorous affair. As one man I know says, “I love a dalliance with an older married woman because they have more to lose than me. We are also wise enough not to get too attached.”
So does Jilly ever feel guilty? “Initially I felt very bad about deceiving my family. I find all the subterfuge awful. Then I thought, sod it, you’ve been an unselfish devoted mother and corporate wife for years. Now I think it does me good, makes me a more pleasant person the rest of the time. If I had a decent sexual relationship with my husband, I wouldn’t do this.”
In the 10 years since she started her extramarital affairs, she has told only one friend, a fellow adulteress, and they provided each other with alibis. Other alibi opportunities come in the form of having genuine hobbies. “You can’t just suddenly make up a new time-consuming passion though, that’s going to look suspicious.”
Mostly, though, she sees her lovers not too frequently, less than once a week, and when her husband is away. She has also found that younger men are the best option. “They have no interest in emotional ties, they are safe, and they are far more likely to consider a woman’s orgasm as important. And they have hair.”
The field of infidelity is a wide one and includes anything from paying for sex to full-blown, head-over-heels, second-life lovers. In Jilly there is a calculated, masculine steel we do not generally associate with feminine love. But there is also a strict and respectful gentleness and respect for preserving the integrity of her love for her family, her husband, and, indeed, herself. In her we see the masculine laws of the mistress redrawn in a more tender feminine way. It is hard to judge her.
THE OTHER SIDE
Arran is a carpenter in his early twenties and got involved with married women when they started brazenly approaching him at gyms. “I don’t want a relationship, and married women are uncomplicated. They know exactly what they want. Some women say they aren’t married, but there are telltale signs — they compartmentalise their lives. Generally they are in their thirties or forties, their husbands have got out of shape or lost interest or are simply not adventurous enough for their wives.
I was in a sporty gang at school, and most of us are at it with married women. To an extent they pass us around. I don’t care. I’ve got two on the go at the moment, one for six months, the other a bit longer. I don’t let them buy me presents. Married women already tend to be very dominant, and I don’t want them having a hold on me.”
Arran’s rules of the game:
(1) Don’t let them control you
(2) Never contact them unless they ask you to
(3) Don’t get hung up about when you are going to see them. Be adaptable and be available during the day
(4) Let them take the lead and tell you what they want
(5) Don’t take it seriously. It’s fun, just enjoy the sex; in my experience, it’s a lot better than any single girl of your own age is going to give you
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Asian Woman 'Live Life' again
Remember 'Cathy' from my posting of "Asian Women's Resilience to Adversity' and subsequent post of "Superwoman Wives, Lazy Husbands'. Well, I just got good news that Cathy has moved out, taking her kids with her. After years of frustration, she finally took the courage to move out. She moved to her mum's house. Her mum is so happy for her and is so ever willing to have her back then to see her daughter suffering. Kudos to all mums who'll always protect their kids, young or old.
Cathy has endured her husband so much. She suffered in silence all his abusive words as she has been worrying that her sons will stand up to the father and in so doing a fight will starts between dad and sons. The last straw finally happened when her husband snatched her purse to take money from her, after she told him that she has to keep the money for Chinese New Year. And when he found that she has money in her purse, he hit her for the first time. Cathy just can’t believe that it happened, she was so emotionally estranged. Cathy cried in silence, feeling that it’s a shame to tell anyone that she was hit. But Cathy was smart; she knew that once her husband started to raise hand at her, it would happen again. So Cathy planned quietly on moving out with her sons. And finally in early January, she and her sons moved out. Of course, her husband called, begged her to come back, saying that it will not happen again. But for once Cathy was firmed.
And after moving out, Cathy was feeling lonely, sad, confused, sorry for herself and guilty. Guilty because she left her husband who now has nothing - no job, no family, just an empty shell of a home. But we all know time will heal all pains (well, almost all pains). Cathy soon adjusts herself in to her new home at her mum’s. She starts seeing all the opportunities.
She has offer to be a 'housekeeper' for this young couple with 2 young kids. This couple will be going to a Middle East country for overseas posting. I thought that was good since she has been looking after the couple's kids for past 6 months. She is now taking care of 3 young kids, which gives her opportunity to stay home. Cathy’s 3 boys are already old enough to take care of themselves, the youngest already going to college. So moving away to have a change would be good for her. She confessed to me that she felt left out when compared to all her friends. That at age of 48, she has not even taken an airplane. I told her it's never too late.
And of course, when a 'single' woman that is still attractive and is now available, sex definitely comes into picture. So here comes a neighborhood friend, 'Dick' that is now chasing after her. Cathy has gone out with this Dick and Dick is a nice guy but it's just that Dick is married. And Dick has the reputation in this town of been a 'Casanova', an 'opportunist'. Cathy feels flattered from the attention given by Dick. And Dick certainly knows that what she needs now is for someone to woo her, to make her feels like a woman again, to pamper her. So Cathy is thinking of going all the way as she's been deprived of all these wooing and most of all 'sex' for so long. It has been 5 years since she last have sex. And she definitely is ready and in need of a good man, good sex.
But Cathy been a conservative woman, deprived from all the fun of life, is hesitant. Almost like our Grace in my posting of 'To cheat or not to cheat?’ So what advice would you give Cathy? Don't you think she deserves better? And that she shouldn't feels guilty at all? But is Dick the right man to break her celibate life with Dick's reputation?
Also, do you think it's a good idea for her to leave to a foreign land although she will be with the family that she knows? I just felt that she has just found her freedom and there's still a lot of adjustment for her.
Cathy has endured her husband so much. She suffered in silence all his abusive words as she has been worrying that her sons will stand up to the father and in so doing a fight will starts between dad and sons. The last straw finally happened when her husband snatched her purse to take money from her, after she told him that she has to keep the money for Chinese New Year. And when he found that she has money in her purse, he hit her for the first time. Cathy just can’t believe that it happened, she was so emotionally estranged. Cathy cried in silence, feeling that it’s a shame to tell anyone that she was hit. But Cathy was smart; she knew that once her husband started to raise hand at her, it would happen again. So Cathy planned quietly on moving out with her sons. And finally in early January, she and her sons moved out. Of course, her husband called, begged her to come back, saying that it will not happen again. But for once Cathy was firmed.
And after moving out, Cathy was feeling lonely, sad, confused, sorry for herself and guilty. Guilty because she left her husband who now has nothing - no job, no family, just an empty shell of a home. But we all know time will heal all pains (well, almost all pains). Cathy soon adjusts herself in to her new home at her mum’s. She starts seeing all the opportunities.
She has offer to be a 'housekeeper' for this young couple with 2 young kids. This couple will be going to a Middle East country for overseas posting. I thought that was good since she has been looking after the couple's kids for past 6 months. She is now taking care of 3 young kids, which gives her opportunity to stay home. Cathy’s 3 boys are already old enough to take care of themselves, the youngest already going to college. So moving away to have a change would be good for her. She confessed to me that she felt left out when compared to all her friends. That at age of 48, she has not even taken an airplane. I told her it's never too late.
And of course, when a 'single' woman that is still attractive and is now available, sex definitely comes into picture. So here comes a neighborhood friend, 'Dick' that is now chasing after her. Cathy has gone out with this Dick and Dick is a nice guy but it's just that Dick is married. And Dick has the reputation in this town of been a 'Casanova', an 'opportunist'. Cathy feels flattered from the attention given by Dick. And Dick certainly knows that what she needs now is for someone to woo her, to make her feels like a woman again, to pamper her. So Cathy is thinking of going all the way as she's been deprived of all these wooing and most of all 'sex' for so long. It has been 5 years since she last have sex. And she definitely is ready and in need of a good man, good sex.
But Cathy been a conservative woman, deprived from all the fun of life, is hesitant. Almost like our Grace in my posting of 'To cheat or not to cheat?’ So what advice would you give Cathy? Don't you think she deserves better? And that she shouldn't feels guilty at all? But is Dick the right man to break her celibate life with Dick's reputation?
Also, do you think it's a good idea for her to leave to a foreign land although she will be with the family that she knows? I just felt that she has just found her freedom and there's still a lot of adjustment for her.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Long Live Big-Butt Women!
Found an interesting article in ThirdAge that said:
LONG LIVE BIG-BUTT WOMEN! Why? Because a new study out of Oxford University in England found women with "pear-shaped" figures with ample extra padding around the hips, buttocks and thighs are actually at a lower risk for heart and metabolic diseases.
So now those curves are making cardiologists smile. "It is shape that matters and where the fat gathers," said Oxford's Dr. Konstantinos Manolopoulos, explaining that fat stored on the hips and in the rear absorb harmful fatty acids and further prevent arteries from clogging.
"Fat around the hips and thighs is good for you, but around the tummy is bad," he told BBC News, noting that the proverbial "spare tire" around the belly leads to higher incidences of heart disease.
The findings help explain why women traditionally have lower rates of heart disease then men until they reach menopause, when their rates rise as they begin to gather fat around their midsections.
"The only thing I can say is that women who have large thighs shouldn't be anxious about it," Manolopoulos said. "Their body shape is associated with health."
Scientists believe genetics play a large role in where a body stores fat.
SO LADIES, NOW YOU CAN PROUDLY WAGGLE YOUR ASS :-)
LONG LIVE BIG-BUTT WOMEN! Why? Because a new study out of Oxford University in England found women with "pear-shaped" figures with ample extra padding around the hips, buttocks and thighs are actually at a lower risk for heart and metabolic diseases.
So now those curves are making cardiologists smile. "It is shape that matters and where the fat gathers," said Oxford's Dr. Konstantinos Manolopoulos, explaining that fat stored on the hips and in the rear absorb harmful fatty acids and further prevent arteries from clogging.
"Fat around the hips and thighs is good for you, but around the tummy is bad," he told BBC News, noting that the proverbial "spare tire" around the belly leads to higher incidences of heart disease.
The findings help explain why women traditionally have lower rates of heart disease then men until they reach menopause, when their rates rise as they begin to gather fat around their midsections.
"The only thing I can say is that women who have large thighs shouldn't be anxious about it," Manolopoulos said. "Their body shape is associated with health."
Scientists believe genetics play a large role in where a body stores fat.
SO LADIES, NOW YOU CAN PROUDLY WAGGLE YOUR ASS :-)
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Which is your choice? "Dxxk", Chocolate or Wine?
Someone just asked me to write this on my blog. It’s about her decision when she was given a choice. She has been into this relationship for three years already. Sex life is still exciting. One of the evenings, she was surprised when she was greeted at the door with his naked man, standing with his tempting ‘Dxxk’. And on the right of his ‘Dxxk', he is holding a delicious looking, tempting piece of her favourite chocolate whilst on the left of his ‘D’, he is holding a glass of wine.
Now what do you think which of the 3 she will choose first?
She said she will tell her choice after she has seen all the comments (hopefully there are as many comments as the previous posting).
Now what do you think which of the 3 she will choose first?
She said she will tell her choice after she has seen all the comments (hopefully there are as many comments as the previous posting).
Monday, January 18, 2010
To cheat or not to cheat? Lust vs Common Sense!
Let me tell you of this story of a young lovely woman. Let’s call her Grace. She’s married with few young kids. She’s extremely lovely and still young, still has that high sexual adrenaline pumping in her. And there’s this husband of hers that has taken her for granted. Spending all his time in his work, only did the usual courtesy gestures during birthday, anniversary and going for short holidays with kids during the school holiday. And of course, our lovely woman feels neglected, lack of attention, lack of love and husband, burdened with the responsibilities of children’.
And then, like all love or ‘lust’ story, we have a charming young man who happens to meet this lonely, neglected woman. Let’s call him Prince. And guess what, our Prince is her hair stylist. You can imagine how wonderful it is to have man running his fingers over your hair, not to mention after been neglected so long, lack of that soothing touch. And so from setting appointment for hair wash, hair color, hair perm, hair steam…anything to do with the head’s hair, it soon transient to having a coffee after the appointment, lunch. And of course, both exchange personal information, Prince unloading his thoughts, his feelings and our Grace too, unloading her loneliness, her been neglected. And soon one thing leads to another, opportunities presented itself, Prince kisses Grace and the fire of lust begins to build up, initiated from a small glow.
Sanity somehow stops Grace whom realizes that it’s wrong. And that she has a lot to lose by satisfying her lust. And so Grace told Prince to hold off. But having tasted the fruits of passion, Grace since then, has been pinning for Prince, has been day dreaming, lusting to taste that passion again. Lust has a way to make a person lost interests in everything. Day in, day out, night in, night out, Grace can’t seems to concentrate on anything but that moment of ‘passion’ with Prince. Grace still goes to Prince for her hair stuffs but has since cut off those coffee times. And Prince has been a good boy, although occasionally still tempts Grace with a short sms like ‘I miss you’.
What would you advise Grace to do? Grace's an avid follower of my blog and she appreciates your advise.
Common sense tells her to forget it but lust as usual is stronger. Otherwise why do we have Presidents, Ministers, MPs all involved in sex scandals? Grace knows she’s not going to leave her family for this Prince. It’s not about love. It’s also not just about lust, but maybe they did find something common in each other, that both are lonely. And to get over this lust, maybe Grace should just do it and forget about it thereafter?
PS: I have to put a qualifier here, that Grace’s husband has cheated on her, not once but twice which he acknowledged, not as in admitting but in making up to Grace. So does that qualify Grace to cheat too?
And then, like all love or ‘lust’ story, we have a charming young man who happens to meet this lonely, neglected woman. Let’s call him Prince. And guess what, our Prince is her hair stylist. You can imagine how wonderful it is to have man running his fingers over your hair, not to mention after been neglected so long, lack of that soothing touch. And so from setting appointment for hair wash, hair color, hair perm, hair steam…anything to do with the head’s hair, it soon transient to having a coffee after the appointment, lunch. And of course, both exchange personal information, Prince unloading his thoughts, his feelings and our Grace too, unloading her loneliness, her been neglected. And soon one thing leads to another, opportunities presented itself, Prince kisses Grace and the fire of lust begins to build up, initiated from a small glow.
Sanity somehow stops Grace whom realizes that it’s wrong. And that she has a lot to lose by satisfying her lust. And so Grace told Prince to hold off. But having tasted the fruits of passion, Grace since then, has been pinning for Prince, has been day dreaming, lusting to taste that passion again. Lust has a way to make a person lost interests in everything. Day in, day out, night in, night out, Grace can’t seems to concentrate on anything but that moment of ‘passion’ with Prince. Grace still goes to Prince for her hair stuffs but has since cut off those coffee times. And Prince has been a good boy, although occasionally still tempts Grace with a short sms like ‘I miss you’.
What would you advise Grace to do? Grace's an avid follower of my blog and she appreciates your advise.
Common sense tells her to forget it but lust as usual is stronger. Otherwise why do we have Presidents, Ministers, MPs all involved in sex scandals? Grace knows she’s not going to leave her family for this Prince. It’s not about love. It’s also not just about lust, but maybe they did find something common in each other, that both are lonely. And to get over this lust, maybe Grace should just do it and forget about it thereafter?
PS: I have to put a qualifier here, that Grace’s husband has cheated on her, not once but twice which he acknowledged, not as in admitting but in making up to Grace. So does that qualify Grace to cheat too?
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Superwoman Wives, Lazy Husbands
I remember a posting that I did dated Sept 12, 2009, titled ‘Asian Women’s Resilience to Adversity’. There I wrote about ‘Cathy’ who had to cope with a husband that has not been working for past 8 years. And how she has then been working to support the whole family whilst the husband continues to enjoy a stress free life, just ‘lepak’ around whilst the wife is slogging away.
And since then, over the past couple of weeks, I hear more stories from friends of how some of their friends are also facing the same situation - caught in this dilemma of having to cope with ‘under-performing spouses’. The Cantonese has this saying of ‘loi yann umm pah koon, chui pah ka choh long’. Meaning ‘Woman has no fear of poverty, just fear of marrying the wrong man’. And it is so true.
There’s story of this lady, ‘Swen’ that has to cope with her husband that laze around the house, with no motivation to chase for sales (he’s in sales line). Sleeping on the couch every noon in front of the kids, which is not a good example. Kids be growing up thinking that women are the ones that are working, rushing around from sending kids to school, to cooking, household chores, not to mention working. Good thing is that Swen’s working in sales, which gives her flexibility. And then there’s ‘Jinny’, who has to put up with husband asking her for money. Where he could have tried harder to chase to business. But he didn’t because his wife is working and if there’s always money when he needs it.
To these husbands, life is good. There’s security of a home. Food is ready on table. There’s always cold drinks or snacks in the fridge. Children are there to call him Dad without him having to support them. And if need of any cash, just ask the wife. Or in one of the case, the husband just took cash from her purse without even asking her. I am so disgusted with that idea.
So what has happened to the conservative, traditional Asian men that have traditionally being bringing home the doug whilst the wives stayed home to tend to the family. And these same Asian men are the ones that are telling the wife that ‘she has no right to question him where he goes as long he brings home the doug’. These Asian men that considers themselves as the ‘King of the Home’, that when he said ‘one’, no one dares say ‘two’. Is that just a ‘myth’ now?
As for the women, how did all this come about? Why do women have to put up with this? Are women to blame for just letting it happen? For just accepting it? No, I think it’s because of the way Asian women are been bought up. From young, Asian family inculcated in their daughter to always put their family first. That daughter has to always look after the family face value. That ‘divorce’ will bring shame to the family. And ultimately, it’s because Asian women somehow still do not believe in divorce when the kids are young. Despite all the education and the Western influence, Asian women somehow still do not believe in single parenthood. That’s why most Asian women will endure till their kids are grown. If by then, they aren’t already been reduced to an unhappy, depressed, unhealthy, old woman. Will it be too late then?
And since then, over the past couple of weeks, I hear more stories from friends of how some of their friends are also facing the same situation - caught in this dilemma of having to cope with ‘under-performing spouses’. The Cantonese has this saying of ‘loi yann umm pah koon, chui pah ka choh long’. Meaning ‘Woman has no fear of poverty, just fear of marrying the wrong man’. And it is so true.
There’s story of this lady, ‘Swen’ that has to cope with her husband that laze around the house, with no motivation to chase for sales (he’s in sales line). Sleeping on the couch every noon in front of the kids, which is not a good example. Kids be growing up thinking that women are the ones that are working, rushing around from sending kids to school, to cooking, household chores, not to mention working. Good thing is that Swen’s working in sales, which gives her flexibility. And then there’s ‘Jinny’, who has to put up with husband asking her for money. Where he could have tried harder to chase to business. But he didn’t because his wife is working and if there’s always money when he needs it.
To these husbands, life is good. There’s security of a home. Food is ready on table. There’s always cold drinks or snacks in the fridge. Children are there to call him Dad without him having to support them. And if need of any cash, just ask the wife. Or in one of the case, the husband just took cash from her purse without even asking her. I am so disgusted with that idea.
So what has happened to the conservative, traditional Asian men that have traditionally being bringing home the doug whilst the wives stayed home to tend to the family. And these same Asian men are the ones that are telling the wife that ‘she has no right to question him where he goes as long he brings home the doug’. These Asian men that considers themselves as the ‘King of the Home’, that when he said ‘one’, no one dares say ‘two’. Is that just a ‘myth’ now?
As for the women, how did all this come about? Why do women have to put up with this? Are women to blame for just letting it happen? For just accepting it? No, I think it’s because of the way Asian women are been bought up. From young, Asian family inculcated in their daughter to always put their family first. That daughter has to always look after the family face value. That ‘divorce’ will bring shame to the family. And ultimately, it’s because Asian women somehow still do not believe in divorce when the kids are young. Despite all the education and the Western influence, Asian women somehow still do not believe in single parenthood. That’s why most Asian women will endure till their kids are grown. If by then, they aren’t already been reduced to an unhappy, depressed, unhealthy, old woman. Will it be too late then?
Thursday, January 7, 2010
‘FITTING INTO OLD JEANS’ IS ‘BETTER THAN SEX’!
Latest survey of more than a quarter of British women thinks that fitting into old jeans is 'better than sex'. The poll by cereal Special K also revealed that 30 per cent of women fantasized more about slimming back into their trophy jeans than about Hollywood heartthrobs. More than a third (35 per cent) of those surveyed admitted owning a pair of ''trophy'' jeans they used to fit into and kept in the hope they would slim down enough to wear.
The survey showed that on average women own five pairs of jeans, with 10 per cent of women claiming their jeans have outlasted their longest relationship. Laura Bryant, from Special K, said: ''Women hold a deep attachment to that one pair of jeans, which they know they look and feel great in.
'They use them as a benchmark and a great motivational tool when slimming and it doesn't matter how old the pair is. ''This research shows the sense of euphoria and the endorphin rush women get when they achieve their goal of fitting back into that one special pair of jeans is even better or on a par with some of the other great pleasures in life.'
Opinions Matter surveyed 2,200 women online last month. For more info, you can copy and paste this link :
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/6906839/Women-think-fitting-into-old-jeans-is-better-than-sex.html
So would Malaysian women really think that way too? Yes I would want to be able to fit into my ‘favorite jeans’. But compared it to sex, don’t think I trade that with jeans ☺.
The survey showed that on average women own five pairs of jeans, with 10 per cent of women claiming their jeans have outlasted their longest relationship. Laura Bryant, from Special K, said: ''Women hold a deep attachment to that one pair of jeans, which they know they look and feel great in.
'They use them as a benchmark and a great motivational tool when slimming and it doesn't matter how old the pair is. ''This research shows the sense of euphoria and the endorphin rush women get when they achieve their goal of fitting back into that one special pair of jeans is even better or on a par with some of the other great pleasures in life.'
Opinions Matter surveyed 2,200 women online last month. For more info, you can copy and paste this link :
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/6906839/Women-think-fitting-into-old-jeans-is-better-than-sex.html
So would Malaysian women really think that way too? Yes I would want to be able to fit into my ‘favorite jeans’. But compared it to sex, don’t think I trade that with jeans ☺.
Friday, December 25, 2009
Why men cheat? Want to know more of cheating men?
HERE WE GO AGAIN. TIGER & HIS AFFAIRS. "Why would a man who has everything -- a beautiful wife, loving family, a fortune estimated at $1 billion -- endanger it all to have affairs with women that don't hold a candle to his wife?"
And this article by Jed Diamond, once again try to find excuses for men to cheat. Blaming it on the evolution, men's Y chromosome. That men will be men, that it's a men's thing. That "men are dumb beasts and all they want is sex." And so most men are just wondering what are all the uproar is about. "You can't expect a man to have sex with only one woman. It's not natural." WHAT BULLSHIT!
And he mentioned that all cultures seem to agree that "men consistently express a fondness for youthful women - full lips, clear and smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, these women are universally sought after."
IT IS JUST SO UNFAIR. WOMEN SACRIFICE SO MUCH, TO GIVE A HEIR TO THEIR MEN, AND IN THE PROGRESS, LOSING THEIR YOUTHFUL BEAUTY JUST TO ENSURE HIS GENE IS CARRY ON.
SO WOULD A FATHER FEEL HAPPY WHEN AN OLDER MAN, OLDER THEN HIM, SEX UP WITH HIS DAUGHTER? AFTER ALL SHE'S YOUTHFUL RIGHT? SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE IDEA, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE FXXXXXX OTHER MEN'S YOUTHFUL DAUGHTER!
The Asian women on the other hand thinks that 'it's better not to know of his affairs. Asian women believe that 'what you don't know, it doesn't hurt'. Is that why our men know that he can get away with it. Because women themselves let them get away with it? I too, am guilty of it.
PS: IF YOU WANT TO READ MORE OF THIS ARTICLE THAT SEEMS TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT "MEN ARE JUST USELESS, JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO THINK ONCE THEIR SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL" COPY AND PASTE THE LINK!
http://www.thirdage.com/personal-growth/tiger-transgresses-5-little-known-secrets-to-why-good-men-cheat?page=0%2C0&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl_relationships-love_20091224&utm_campaign=thirdage
And this article by Jed Diamond, once again try to find excuses for men to cheat. Blaming it on the evolution, men's Y chromosome. That men will be men, that it's a men's thing. That "men are dumb beasts and all they want is sex." And so most men are just wondering what are all the uproar is about. "You can't expect a man to have sex with only one woman. It's not natural." WHAT BULLSHIT!
And he mentioned that all cultures seem to agree that "men consistently express a fondness for youthful women - full lips, clear and smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, these women are universally sought after."
IT IS JUST SO UNFAIR. WOMEN SACRIFICE SO MUCH, TO GIVE A HEIR TO THEIR MEN, AND IN THE PROGRESS, LOSING THEIR YOUTHFUL BEAUTY JUST TO ENSURE HIS GENE IS CARRY ON.
SO WOULD A FATHER FEEL HAPPY WHEN AN OLDER MAN, OLDER THEN HIM, SEX UP WITH HIS DAUGHTER? AFTER ALL SHE'S YOUTHFUL RIGHT? SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE IDEA, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE FXXXXXX OTHER MEN'S YOUTHFUL DAUGHTER!
The Asian women on the other hand thinks that 'it's better not to know of his affairs. Asian women believe that 'what you don't know, it doesn't hurt'. Is that why our men know that he can get away with it. Because women themselves let them get away with it? I too, am guilty of it.
PS: IF YOU WANT TO READ MORE OF THIS ARTICLE THAT SEEMS TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT "MEN ARE JUST USELESS, JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO THINK ONCE THEIR SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL" COPY AND PASTE THE LINK!
http://www.thirdage.com/personal-growth/tiger-transgresses-5-little-known-secrets-to-why-good-men-cheat?page=0%2C0&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl_relationships-love_20091224&utm_campaign=thirdage
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Asian wife acccepts infidelity?
As usual a group of us were chit chatting. And this particular topic caught my interest. My friend told me that one of her office colleague discovered that her husband cheated on her when she went for a short trip. She did sensed something was not right when she came home. Her home was too clean which is unusual as she knows her husband is not a neat person. True enough 3 days later as she was finally into the final cleaning of the house, she found 2 ribbed condom packagings and 1 unused open condom. Her husband was careless and must have forgotten that he just threw it into an unused dustbin. She was devastated. Her husband was the most loving man and she thought they had a perfect relationship. Sex was good and they communicate well. She tried to find excuses that it's probably just sex. And like how a cat can't resist a fish, her husband is afterall like any other normal man.
She questioned herself, would it do any good if she was to question him? Was she going to leave him just because of this? But then if she kept quiet, would her husband continue with the relationship and it might just gets too deep? And as she start recounting the days since she's back, she realised that her husband had seen her lover again as there was an evening when he came home with his tie not probably tied which as she thought was unusual.
My friend told her that it could really be just a one off sex and confronting it would start the first distrust in their marriage. But ignoring it might just give her husband more freedom which might be too late if feelings are involved. So she told her to give herself a few days or weeks more, to observe her husband to see if there's anything unusual with his behaviour. And if she continues to have sleepless night, then she might as well face it and question him. So that she can have a normal life again, with or without him. Time always heals.
Personally I still can't accept the fact that men are accepted to just had sex as there's no feelings involved. All in the excuse that they can't control that moment of lust. If they love their partners, would they not think before they act. Would women be forgiven if women too can give in to lust?
And again, it's this Asian wife conditioning, that infidelity by husband is acceptable as long they bring home the dough! A Western wife would have raise hell already!
She questioned herself, would it do any good if she was to question him? Was she going to leave him just because of this? But then if she kept quiet, would her husband continue with the relationship and it might just gets too deep? And as she start recounting the days since she's back, she realised that her husband had seen her lover again as there was an evening when he came home with his tie not probably tied which as she thought was unusual.
My friend told her that it could really be just a one off sex and confronting it would start the first distrust in their marriage. But ignoring it might just give her husband more freedom which might be too late if feelings are involved. So she told her to give herself a few days or weeks more, to observe her husband to see if there's anything unusual with his behaviour. And if she continues to have sleepless night, then she might as well face it and question him. So that she can have a normal life again, with or without him. Time always heals.
Personally I still can't accept the fact that men are accepted to just had sex as there's no feelings involved. All in the excuse that they can't control that moment of lust. If they love their partners, would they not think before they act. Would women be forgiven if women too can give in to lust?
And again, it's this Asian wife conditioning, that infidelity by husband is acceptable as long they bring home the dough! A Western wife would have raise hell already!
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Expression of Love
My friend just shared with me this poem, written by her new boyfriend. She felt heartbroken as she thought that her boyfriend only think of her as sex object. Personally I felt the same as he could have written it with a bit of style, class with some love or romantic intonations instead of just straight vulgarity. Think the boyfriend must be very horny when he wrote this :-). What do any of you think?
WHITE SUGAR
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your lips.
Then give me your tongue,
Then give me your drips.
You are my possession,
Open your holes
To hot semen jets
When I take control.
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your tits.
I'll suck your nipples
Each time you submit.
Lay down, spread wide, prepare
love tunnel slut.
Your butterfly wings
Will flutter on nuts.
White sugar, white sugar,
Give me your heart.
I have your body,
Now soul must impart.
My candy orgasm
cums so abrupt.
Sweet love envelopes,
each time we erupt.
WHITE SUGAR
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your lips.
Then give me your tongue,
Then give me your drips.
You are my possession,
Open your holes
To hot semen jets
When I take control.
White sugar, white sugar
Give me your tits.
I'll suck your nipples
Each time you submit.
Lay down, spread wide, prepare
love tunnel slut.
Your butterfly wings
Will flutter on nuts.
White sugar, white sugar,
Give me your heart.
I have your body,
Now soul must impart.
My candy orgasm
cums so abrupt.
Sweet love envelopes,
each time we erupt.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Younger wife = Marital bliss
Apparently, the secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. And if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age.
However, I would say that ‘mutual aspiration of wanting the marriage to work’ is the basis for successful marriage. It’s takes two to want to make the marriage works and that means ‘tolerance’ as there’s no such thing as a perfect man or woman.
Read this interesting article.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8325579.stm
'Younger wife' for marital bliss
Beyonce and Jay-Z (Pop star Beyonce and rapper husband Jay-Z married last year)
The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z, 39. The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research. The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship. Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.
For better or worse
They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher. Add in a better education for the woman - Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z - and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.
Those who have never divorced fare better too. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees. Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values." But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".
HAVE YOUR SAY
Not so long ago the husband had to be older than his wife in order to be able to support a family, but such criteria are not so relevant now women have been educated to be able to command good jobs, so I suggest the basis for a successful marriage should be tolerance
Marion Monahan, Bristol
Send us your comments
However, I would say that ‘mutual aspiration of wanting the marriage to work’ is the basis for successful marriage. It’s takes two to want to make the marriage works and that means ‘tolerance’ as there’s no such thing as a perfect man or woman.
Read this interesting article.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8325579.stm
'Younger wife' for marital bliss
Beyonce and Jay-Z (Pop star Beyonce and rapper husband Jay-Z married last year)
The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts. These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team. The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z, 39. The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research. The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship. Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.
For better or worse
They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher. Add in a better education for the woman - Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z - and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.
Those who have never divorced fare better too. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees. Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values." But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".
HAVE YOUR SAY
Not so long ago the husband had to be older than his wife in order to be able to support a family, but such criteria are not so relevant now women have been educated to be able to command good jobs, so I suggest the basis for a successful marriage should be tolerance
Marion Monahan, Bristol
Send us your comments
Sunday, October 25, 2009
How to beat a cheating husband?
Let's face it. All women subconsciously know what they should do to keep their husband, boyfriend, and lover. But it's that one question which many women are asking 'why must women be the one to take the effort to keep their men'?
Traditionally Asian women have been taught to accept men's infidelity. I remember my grandfather has two wives and each wife bored him 13 children. So he has 26 children. And of course his 26 children multiply further, so you can imagine what a grand, big affair he had during his funeral. His children multiply when they married, so he has more then 70 grand kids.
In the movie 'Raise the Red Lantern', all the wives has to stand outside their door every evening, and they be praying that the man will stop in front of their door with the red lantern. It means he's spending the night with her. What a sad situation then. And that's because those days, women aren't independent.
But then even in these days when women are much more independent and they have their careers, we still see how women can be destroyed by selfish men. All in the name of 'love'. The advise given here in this link is good and makes sense. As I believe finally it's based on two options - it's either you want to keep your man or you don't want to keep your man!
http://www.cheating-boyfriend.net/marriage/marriage-infidelity-%E2%80%93-secrets-to-beating-a-cheating-husband/
Traditionally Asian women have been taught to accept men's infidelity. I remember my grandfather has two wives and each wife bored him 13 children. So he has 26 children. And of course his 26 children multiply further, so you can imagine what a grand, big affair he had during his funeral. His children multiply when they married, so he has more then 70 grand kids.
In the movie 'Raise the Red Lantern', all the wives has to stand outside their door every evening, and they be praying that the man will stop in front of their door with the red lantern. It means he's spending the night with her. What a sad situation then. And that's because those days, women aren't independent.
But then even in these days when women are much more independent and they have their careers, we still see how women can be destroyed by selfish men. All in the name of 'love'. The advise given here in this link is good and makes sense. As I believe finally it's based on two options - it's either you want to keep your man or you don't want to keep your man!
http://www.cheating-boyfriend.net/marriage/marriage-infidelity-%E2%80%93-secrets-to-beating-a-cheating-husband/
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Wife wants a divorce just because she don't like his hair cut!
My friend just told a surprising story. He went home with a new haircut, expecting his wifey to be pleased with his new look. Guess what she said when he asked, "How do you like my new haircut?" "I don't want to go Singapore with you (they were leaving for Singapore next week) and I want a divorce!" He was stunned, speechless. Seriously he was very tempted to say 'yes' to the divorce. But they were going to Singapore because their daughter flew in all the way from LA. So in this case, he makes peace. He chooses to ignore her remarks or else it'll be another quarrel. My friend's a 'mat salleh' and his wife's an Asian.
We always hear stories of women been unhappy because of their men. This time round it's the men keeping the peace at home. It's probably:
(1) He loves wifey too much, or
(2) He loves his daughter too much or
(3) It’s just another one of those crazy things she said and which she had said too often that he just ignored it, or
(4) He’s just a creature of habit, rather keep quiet and it'll pass.
Coming from a man, it's kind of unacceptable in the eyes of the society.
Another Asian Woman story.
Read this link on how some men put up with their wife’s beating. Interesting.
http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/AllWoman/html/20070909T190000-0500_127174_OBS_MY_WIFE_BEATS_ME_.asp
We always hear stories of women been unhappy because of their men. This time round it's the men keeping the peace at home. It's probably:
(1) He loves wifey too much, or
(2) He loves his daughter too much or
(3) It’s just another one of those crazy things she said and which she had said too often that he just ignored it, or
(4) He’s just a creature of habit, rather keep quiet and it'll pass.
Coming from a man, it's kind of unacceptable in the eyes of the society.
Another Asian Woman story.
Read this link on how some men put up with their wife’s beating. Interesting.
http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/AllWoman/html/20070909T190000-0500_127174_OBS_MY_WIFE_BEATS_ME_.asp
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Do your mind wonders when you are having sex?
This article 'In praise of slow sex' brings to mind a story that my friend once told me. She was having sex with her man when she suddenly notices a cobweb at the corner of the ceiling as his man was humping away in ecstasy at her. And she forgot, and said, "there's a cobweb". You can guess what happens next. Although I had to add that my friend is a 'clean freak'. Does that make it excusable?
So do your mind wonders when you are having sex? Like absentmindedly think of what you have to do next, the amount of clothes you need to iron, the project paper you have to finish, the dishes you need to wash, or the interesting conversation you just had with your friend. Or would you have answer the phone when it rings while you are having sex? Well if your mind does wonders and you do pick up the phone when you are having sex, there are two conclusions drawn by the author:
(1) The man probably needs to brush up on his sexual technique.
(2) Or our behavior reveals something alarming about the way we live nowadays.
I would think it's the latter. These days, we are chasing time to do so many things. In addition to commitments to our work, our family, we also want to be in all the latest trends that are happening all around us. So we try to juggle as many activities as possible, we go to gym, to facial, to massage, to yoga, to do charity, we read the latest book, watch the latest movie, be seen in the latest socialite cafes and we signed up in all the social media sites. Not only that, we buy the latest blackberry or the iphone, we tweet daily so as to keep ourselves updated every second, every minute of the day. To the point that "we even have to put our mobile phone next to our bed when we are getting ready for sex," said one of my friends.
So do you have any incidents to share when you are having sex or stories to tell? Or do you already realized this and are now taking time to enjoy sex, to be more mindful of the present. Share your views.
Read more at: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/carl-honore/in-praise-of-slow-sex_b_322026.html
So do your mind wonders when you are having sex? Like absentmindedly think of what you have to do next, the amount of clothes you need to iron, the project paper you have to finish, the dishes you need to wash, or the interesting conversation you just had with your friend. Or would you have answer the phone when it rings while you are having sex? Well if your mind does wonders and you do pick up the phone when you are having sex, there are two conclusions drawn by the author:
(1) The man probably needs to brush up on his sexual technique.
(2) Or our behavior reveals something alarming about the way we live nowadays.
I would think it's the latter. These days, we are chasing time to do so many things. In addition to commitments to our work, our family, we also want to be in all the latest trends that are happening all around us. So we try to juggle as many activities as possible, we go to gym, to facial, to massage, to yoga, to do charity, we read the latest book, watch the latest movie, be seen in the latest socialite cafes and we signed up in all the social media sites. Not only that, we buy the latest blackberry or the iphone, we tweet daily so as to keep ourselves updated every second, every minute of the day. To the point that "we even have to put our mobile phone next to our bed when we are getting ready for sex," said one of my friends.
So do you have any incidents to share when you are having sex or stories to tell? Or do you already realized this and are now taking time to enjoy sex, to be more mindful of the present. Share your views.
Read more at: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/carl-honore/in-praise-of-slow-sex_b_322026.html
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Women's Growing Love of Porn!
So women are watching more porn’s and loving it these days? Interesting especially when Asian women are perceived to be more conservative. Asian women always seems to carry that demure, shy look that makes the man feels weak and want to protect them. Has this change or maybe just the China women that still try to portray that demure, shy, sweet looking, soft-spoken damsels in distress? And would you openly admit that you love watching porn or you watch you prior to sex to get some excitement. Personally I don't feel anything now compared to those younger days when I was just exposed to porn. Now I would say that 'descriptive words' works better, hence, maybe reading porn might be more interesting. Share your thoughts.
http://therumpus.net/2009/07/ladies-love-of-porn-is-changing-the-market/
http://therumpus.net/2009/07/ladies-love-of-porn-is-changing-the-market/
Monday, October 5, 2009
Do Asian Women do Dumb or Irritional Things?
Have you ever wonder how and why ordinary people do unusual things, things that seem alien to their natures. And why good people can sometimes act evil? Why smart people sometimes do dumb or irrational things? The link to this article is interesting and I agreed to point 1 where we at times can be carried away by the 'cover' of the acquaintance that we let ourselves be carried away by the beauty of the person. We will choose to ignore our intelligent judgement or our inner judgement that rings the alarm bell, as we by nature are creatures of sight and hearing.
And with so many quality myths on Asian Women, would you say that Asian Women could get away by the virtue of the myths?
http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/11/10-piercing-insights-into-human-nature.php
And with so many quality myths on Asian Women, would you say that Asian Women could get away by the virtue of the myths?
http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/11/10-piercing-insights-into-human-nature.php
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men
Wow…. am so proud to be an Asian Women after reading this blog.
http://asianonlinedatingtips.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-western-men-get-married-to-asian.html
Do click on this link or copy and paste. It’s interesting. My comments on those 6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men.
(1) Simple and Easy to Please – Yes I would think so but women are still women, bit it Asian or Western. Just remember not to take them for granted.
(2) Not Aggressive – True but Asian Women uses her charm to get what she wants. It’s the soft approach that’s unique to Asian Women.
(3) Plain and Natural – The description of pearly snow-white skin rings so true in the China women. I too am envious.
(4) What You See is What You Get - Hmmm…think as in all relationship, you discover more of each other as you progress.
(5) One of the boys – Just Asian Women nature to fit into the Western world.
(6) The Loving Asian Woman – It’s due to the teachings passed down from our mum I suppose. That man is the King of the House.
http://asianonlinedatingtips.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-western-men-get-married-to-asian.html
Do click on this link or copy and paste. It’s interesting. My comments on those 6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men.
(1) Simple and Easy to Please – Yes I would think so but women are still women, bit it Asian or Western. Just remember not to take them for granted.
(2) Not Aggressive – True but Asian Women uses her charm to get what she wants. It’s the soft approach that’s unique to Asian Women.
(3) Plain and Natural – The description of pearly snow-white skin rings so true in the China women. I too am envious.
(4) What You See is What You Get - Hmmm…think as in all relationship, you discover more of each other as you progress.
(5) One of the boys – Just Asian Women nature to fit into the Western world.
(6) The Loving Asian Woman – It’s due to the teachings passed down from our mum I suppose. That man is the King of the House.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Asian Women trumps over Western Women
Marie Claire’s August issue said, “Call it the Woody Allen effect, when the venerable director scandalously left Mia Farrow for her adopted daughter, South Korean-born Soon-Yin Previn – 35 years his junior! And then there’s - media baron Rupert Murdoch with fresh-faced Wendi Deng—17 days after finalizing his divorce from his second wife. CBS head Leslie Moonves wed TV news anchor Julie Chen; Oscar winner Nicolas Cage married half-his-age third wife Alice Kim; billionaire George Soros coupled up with violinist Jennifer Chun; producer Brian Grazer courted concert pianist Chau-Giang Thi Nguyen; investment magnate Bruce Wasserstein coupled with fourth wife Angela Chao; the pending vows between venture capitalist Vivi Nevo and Chinese actress Ziyi Zhang;” and…not to mention many other normal average Western men who had wed or are courting Asian women.
With so much interest and with the cards laid out so clearly on the power of Asian women trumping the Western women, aren’t Western women curious and wonder what’s the big deal about Asian women?
Asian women are petite, small breasted, normal features like small eyes, flat nose…and the list go on. Not to mention that Asian women can also be referred to as the poor cousins of the Western women by the fact that Asia to some Westerners, are still thought to be laid back, living in poor conditions, the stigma of poor toilet hygiene, etc. Also, stereotyped as submissive, domesticated, gentle, soft-spoken, devoted, easy-going and to some extend could be thought as not too intelligent or too smart to be belligerent. Plus men have always fantasized Western women. I remembered that most of the porn movies that I was exposed to are always on Western women. They are looked upon as sensual women, great and adventurous in bed (due to the many porns), sexy looking, and glamorous, confident, assertive etc. With so many plus points, one would think that Western women would have trumped it all over their Asian sisters.
But in reality I believed that men, whether they are Western men or Asian men, they all need that feeling of been in control, someone to boost their ego and that, is what Asian women are very good it. The image of Asian women, submissive, waiting at home, doing all the domestic chores, and yet ever ready with beer, wet towels and a head & neck massage waiting for their man to come home certainly appeals to all macho men. It’s a sign of “I’m the Master of the House”.
With so much interest and with the cards laid out so clearly on the power of Asian women trumping the Western women, aren’t Western women curious and wonder what’s the big deal about Asian women?
Asian women are petite, small breasted, normal features like small eyes, flat nose…and the list go on. Not to mention that Asian women can also be referred to as the poor cousins of the Western women by the fact that Asia to some Westerners, are still thought to be laid back, living in poor conditions, the stigma of poor toilet hygiene, etc. Also, stereotyped as submissive, domesticated, gentle, soft-spoken, devoted, easy-going and to some extend could be thought as not too intelligent or too smart to be belligerent. Plus men have always fantasized Western women. I remembered that most of the porn movies that I was exposed to are always on Western women. They are looked upon as sensual women, great and adventurous in bed (due to the many porns), sexy looking, and glamorous, confident, assertive etc. With so many plus points, one would think that Western women would have trumped it all over their Asian sisters.
But in reality I believed that men, whether they are Western men or Asian men, they all need that feeling of been in control, someone to boost their ego and that, is what Asian women are very good it. The image of Asian women, submissive, waiting at home, doing all the domestic chores, and yet ever ready with beer, wet towels and a head & neck massage waiting for their man to come home certainly appeals to all macho men. It’s a sign of “I’m the Master of the House”.
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