6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men

Wow…. am so proud to be an Asian Women after reading this blog.

http://asianonlinedatingtips.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-western-men-get-married-to-asian.html

Do click on this link or copy and paste. It’s interesting. My comments on those 6 reasons why Asian Women are favoured by Western Men.

(1) Simple and Easy to Please – Yes I would think so but women are still women, bit it Asian or Western. Just remember not to take them for granted.

(2) Not Aggressive – True but Asian Women uses her charm to get what she wants. It’s the soft approach that’s unique to Asian Women.

(3) Plain and Natural – The description of pearly snow-white skin rings so true in the China women. I too am envious.

(4) What You See is What You Get - Hmmm…think as in all relationship, you discover more of each other as you progress.

(5) One of the boys – Just Asian Women nature to fit into the Western world.

(6) The Loving Asian Woman – It’s due to the teachings passed down from our mum I suppose. That man is the King of the House.

Women are getting unhappier!

This article is so true.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/20/opinion/20dowd.html?_r=1&emc=eta1
Women these days shouldered so many responsibilities. In olden days, women just take care of the household whilst men bring in the dough. This modern age, women have added responsibilities of bringing in their share of dough, yet still need to handle the household. As the saying goes "there's a price for everything", with more luxuries, conveniences, comes with both partners working hard to earn more money. What's depressing to think off is that men in their golden age can still find a partner as long they are secure whilst women in their golden age are just grannies. Like the Chinese saying, "Women in their 40s are broken, Men in their 40s are like a stalk of rose" and it still holds true! Look at all the old men with their young trophies! It's no wonder women get more depressed with age. But then, hey sisters all, there’s always a silver lining, what’s most important are our attitude in life, our perseverance, and our friends that are always beside us. And with the right outlook in life, let just enjoy the journey.

Asian Women's resilience to Adversity

I recently met up with my school friends in Klang. We usually catch up once every quarter since we started to meet up after 20 years of missing each other. I must have caught one of my girlfriends in one of her frustrating mood that she opened up to me. She told me how her husband has not been working for past 8 years. And even if he does, it doesn't last, the most, maybe a year.
Let's call my girlfriend "Cathy". I remember during my secondary school days, (maybe we were then about 15), I always envied Cathy, she has great parent, smart siblings. Her sisters all studied overseas, one of them in London and I always assume she would follow her sister’s footsteps after leaving school. But she didn’t, instead she married one of her childhood school friend, a year or two after leaving school. Marriage was great in those years, although they weren’t well off but comfortable. Cathy instead becomes a housewife when the kids came in and she was happy to do so.
Due to the recession in the late 90s, her husband decides to leave to overseas to work for more income. However, the weather condition of the country didn’t suit him and he soon came back. And that’s when he changed. And since then Cathy has to work in a restaurant to support the whole family of 3 boys plus her non-working husband. She learnt to bake cookies to sell during festivals, just to make some extra income. Baking for days to early wee mornings for each festival, just for RM3,000 net profit. 2 boys are in college now, taking loans to study and another still in school. When driving home, I can’t help but reflect our younger days when we were all so young, happy, not knowing how our lives will turn out. Some of us have big dreams, and some bigger dreams. But did our dreams come true; did our lives now, after 30 years, turns out the way we dreamt off in our younger days?
What Cathy said to me was what can she do, she has been a housewife since she married, and her kids need her. And I admire her for her strengths, her sacrifices for her kids. And I think back to those days when I always thought she would be leaving to study overseas, be a professional woman. Life is Certainly Uncertain!

Asian Women trumps over Western Women

Marie Claire’s August issue said, “Call it the Woody Allen effect, when the venerable director scandalously left Mia Farrow for her adopted daughter, South Korean-born Soon-Yin Previn – 35 years his junior! And then there’s - media baron Rupert Murdoch with fresh-faced Wendi Deng—17 days after finalizing his divorce from his second wife. CBS head Leslie Moonves wed TV news anchor Julie Chen; Oscar winner Nicolas Cage married half-his-age third wife Alice Kim; billionaire George Soros coupled up with violinist Jennifer Chun; producer Brian Grazer courted concert pianist Chau-Giang Thi Nguyen; investment magnate Bruce Wasserstein coupled with fourth wife Angela Chao; the pending vows between venture capitalist Vivi Nevo and Chinese actress Ziyi Zhang;” and…not to mention many other normal average Western men who had wed or are courting Asian women.

With so much interest and with the cards laid out so clearly on the power of Asian women trumping the Western women, aren’t Western women curious and wonder what’s the big deal about Asian women?

Asian women are petite, small breasted, normal features like small eyes, flat nose…and the list go on. Not to mention that Asian women can also be referred to as the poor cousins of the Western women by the fact that Asia to some Westerners, are still thought to be laid back, living in poor conditions, the stigma of poor toilet hygiene, etc. Also, stereotyped as submissive, domesticated, gentle, soft-spoken, devoted, easy-going and to some extend could be thought as not too intelligent or too smart to be belligerent. Plus men have always fantasized Western women. I remembered that most of the porn movies that I was exposed to are always on Western women. They are looked upon as sensual women, great and adventurous in bed (due to the many porns), sexy looking, and glamorous, confident, assertive etc. With so many plus points, one would think that Western women would have trumped it all over their Asian sisters.

But in reality I believed that men, whether they are Western men or Asian men, they all need that feeling of been in control, someone to boost their ego and that, is what Asian women are very good it. The image of Asian women, submissive, waiting at home, doing all the domestic chores, and yet ever ready with beer, wet towels and a head & neck massage waiting for their man to come home certainly appeals to all macho men. It’s a sign of “I’m the Master of the House”.

Asian Women's Super Clean Freak Husbands

During one of our girls' lunch outing, two of my girlfriends revealed that their husbands are "super clean neat freak". Everything has to be in their proper places, and they just lose their mind if things are not arranged orderly. And with little kids at home, how can things be in order. And each of my girlfriends is up to their neck, to be patient and to maintain calm in the family when the husbands go on a 'clean neat rampant' ranting. Whilst Asian women are known to be accommodating, tolerant but it’s up to a certain stage and there’s always a danger of a breaking point.

One of them has this point of view that like it or not, it’s always still good to have a man in the house, even if he’s not the ideal husband. Whilst the other, had plan to leave and live her own life once the kids are grown.

One of the strong key points of ‘most’ Asian women is that children still come first. As long the marriage is still bearable, Asian women will tolerate…. at least up to a point.

Men lose their mind speaking to pretty women and big breasted women

This article is interesting. Ask your man if it's true that "they can't think straight when they see a pretty woman"? And 99% would said it is although they probably won't admit it cos it means they aren't loyal right :-). And all women know for sure, the first glance of men on women is women's breasts. I have a friend that has this set of knockers...that men just zoom on immediately and if we girls are with her, we are just invisible. Well there's this comment that girls from Hong Kong, China, South Korea, Indonesia & Philippines tend to have small boobs, which is about 32A - 33B; whereas girls from Japan, Taiwan, Singapore, Malaysia have bigger boobs, which is around 34B - 36C. Western women would be the 34C - 36D range. Actually it's all stereotyped by the media and the porn. What we want to know is that if Asian women's breasts are smaller compared to Western women, won't then Western women have better advantage? Afterall men are such visual creatures!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6132718/Men-lose-their-minds-speaking-to-pretty-women.html

Compromising

Didn't realised it's so difficult to find the right condo. Being searching for past 3 months and twice that when I thought, "that's it, our dream condo found". But then somehow found out some 'defects', like been close to a mosque, and it's not one but two mosques. And especially during this Puasa/Ramadan month, the loudspeaker is tuned up all the more louder. So would you be able to take the 5.30ish morning wake up 'mosque call'? For me I would, it's my alarm clock. During my younger days, I remember this was my alarm clock to tell me, its time to wait up and go to school. With the multiraces living in Malaysia, there's so many cultural and religion practices by each races, that we learnt or grew to be more accomodating to each other's practices. And we also learnt the different 'perceived' practices of each races, eg. if concern with noise, means ensure there isn't a mosque nearby (it's difficult, we are living in Malaysia where prayers come with loudspeaker). If concern with living with civic mindfulness people, then not in the 'chinese, chinese' area, cos means putting up with double parking, rubbish thrown to your rubbish bin instead of their own, dogs pooing at your front gate....etc. And if you have an Indian neighbour, might just have to put up with this loud Indian music. So how do you win it all? Find an upmarket area! But that comes with a price! And I certainly don't want to spend my twilight years paying mortgages!
So what if one happens to find this dream dream condo, that fits all the criterias and after moving in, the neighbour sold off his condo and in move an Indian neighbour that so happens love to clank up their favourite Indian music loud...do you sell and move???
Sigh.....maybe am just tired of condo hunting, I should just take a break from it before start to hunt again.
Asian woman here compromise to buy a condo instead of landed property to accomodate the Western man's wish and also to ensure that surrounding's quiet. And to me, condo living must comes with great view and big balcony. Otherwise why do one choose to live in condo?
And now after seeing this condo with 'marvellous unobstructive Genting view', 'big balcony', 'close to upmarket area' and at the 'most affordable price for 1,700 sq. ft.', I was just so happy that am thinking 'this is it, finally we got our dream condo'! But in life, there's always compromises, cos there's a mosque on the left and it's not just one mosque but two mosques, one on right and one on left, such is life! Maybe 'sound proof' window helps? Cos noise are louder when it's in the quiet of the morning! Plus one gets immune to it after a while, right!
Hmmmm.....Asian woman should use their Asian charm to change the Western man's mind! But then Asian woman's accomodating, that's why Western man loves Asian woman I suppose!