True? Asian women treats men better?

I happen to read one of the blogger's comment:

"In Asian culture, women treat men better and men treat woman worse.
In Western culture, men are taught to treat women better and women do not have to be as 'nice' to men.
As a result when an Asian woman and a Western man date they are amazed by how nicely the other person is treating them."

DO YOU THINK IT'S STILL TRUE WITH THE MODERN SOCIETY THAT 'Asian women treat men better'!

Love too much!

Is there such thing as loving him or her too much? Would there be a danger of the love becoming an obsession? Of getting too attached! One of my girlfriends said that when her man is away, her mind that will start imagining him having fun time, meeting up with girls and taking them home. And as she thinks, she gets very jealous and her imagination starts running wild, up to the extent of thinking how she would question him when he comes back and how she would be punishing him, how they would quarrel.



I thought that is a sickness. Why waste time on thinking of things that are just built up by the mind! I thought it’s just an excuse to pick a fight and to have some attention from him.

What would you advise her? I told her to go out and enjoy herself with friends! Or find something to do, like reading but it seems she’s not into internet or reading.

Going through the motions of life!

As I was rushing from one chore to the other, from one errand to the other, it kind of dawn to me that we seems to live life like in motion, like a programmed robot. We are driven by habits that we kind of automatically run from doing one task, one chore, one errand to the other like a clock ticking away automatically.



As I take a step backward, I can see my brain thinking ahead of each task. Synchronizing all the tasks, planning ahead which or what I should do first so that the tasks flows through smoothly, from one to the other so that time is well capitalized.

Yes, time is the key factor. We are all racing against time. Against the limited, 2-days weekend that we have. In fact we are lucky that we do not work on Saturday. Imagine those days when Saturday was a working day! We have less weekend time then. But yet we managed.

Some of you might not think so. But if you really step back and conduct a post mortem of a busy day, I think you would know what I meant. We are running around, doing things but just not really in full awareness, in full presence of what we are really doing. It's almost look like we are in a dream. Remember how our dream are like, we are motionless, supposedly in sleep, but our mind busy with activities. And when we woke up, we somehow can't remember clearly and after a few minutes, the remembrances all fade away. Same in what we doing everyday, we run around doing all the things and when we sit down end of the day, we somehow can't recall. At times, we can't even recall what we eat yesterday.

And if we had kids, do you not agree that sometimes we just do not really listen to them, but just give automated answers to their questions! Many times, am reminded to stop what am doing and listen when they come to you. But somehow, they seem to need your attention more when you are extremely busy. We are all just human, I suppose.

It's yet another new week. Another Monday. Another week ahead. Have a great busy 'dream' week again.

Time has changed. Ladies have the sex power now!

I can't believe that it's almost three months since my last update. Time certainly flies without me realising it. Well I hope I be writing more regularly from now on.

I was having nice chat with some ladies in their 30s whom are all still single. And guess what the topic will eventually turn to? Men. Yes, MEN seems to be the topic these days. With the emergence of internet, social media, it seems so much easier to get to know a man now and ladies have become more liberal in their sexual needs.



Now it’s the ladies’ turn to dictate if the man is worthy for them to have sex with. Ladies now don’t mind having a one night stand. ‘Why waste a good body!’ one of the ladies said. So for the ‘good body’ men, your luck is in. For those who are keeping flabby, big tummy, start building muscles now.

There’s this Chinese proverb – “When a woman wants a man, there’s only a cloth barrier”. But if a man wants a woman, there’s a mountain barrier”. Won’t you agree that it’s so true?

Men are weaker creatures where sex is concern. They can’t say no, even to ladies they don’t really fancy. They are controlled by their hormones. When that “commandor” is in attention (erect), they just had to follow their “commandor’s order.

But for a woman, if she wants to have sex, she will just sex with the man she fancy and not just any man that happens to be there when she’s horny. She has the will power to say no if the man is not up to her standard.

Time has certainly changed right! In parting, here’s a quote:
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“When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've never tried before.”