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Monday, December 28, 2009

Make your New Year Resolution Yet?

It’s the time of the year again, to reflect on what we have achieved for the year, on what we have yet to do, what we could have done better. Another New Year Resolution.

How many times have you written these New Year Resolutions very seriously, thinking it through thoroughly and yet by end year, we realized that we actually had not done what we set to achieve. And then we repeat the same resolutions again for the coming New Year, telling ourselves we’ll do it this year.

Well, I sure am one of them. So for this year, I am thinking in the line of ‘To live a much more positive, healthier living lifestyle.’ Which means:

“TO LIVE SIMPLE.
TO BE IN THE PRESENT.
TO ALWAYS COUNT MY BLESSINGS.”


It won’t be easy cos we have been conditioned since young to aspire for better things, and everyone’s chasing after the same dream, where we are measured by ‘how big’, ‘how branded’, ‘how many’, and not by ‘how happy and carefree’ we are.

So the vicious cycle starts again, all wanting to achieve the best of all materialistic things, to want more and more, to continue to be stressed! When what we have already is so much more valuable – great kids/family, supportive relatives, and wonderful friends.

So what is your resolution this year? Would you not want to make it simple?
In ending this post, I like to share this wonderful quote with all of you.

OUR ATTITUDE DEFINES LIFE

Life is Best for those who want to Live it,
Life is Difficult for those who want to Analyze it,
Life is worst for those who want to Criticize it,
Our Attitude Defines Life...

ENJOY YOUR LIFE

Laugh so Hard That even Sorrow Smiles at You,
Live Life so Well That even Death Loves to see you Alive,
Fight so Hard That even Fate accepts its Defeat...

HAPPY NEW YEAR.22 Great New Year's resolutions (and 6 pretty good ones). (GL Life).(Brief Article): An article from: Girls' Life

Friday, December 25, 2009

Why men cheat? Want to know more of cheating men?

HERE WE GO AGAIN. TIGER & HIS AFFAIRS. "Why would a man who has everything -- a beautiful wife, loving family, a fortune estimated at $1 billion -- endanger it all to have affairs with women that don't hold a candle to his wife?"

And this article by Jed Diamond, once again try to find excuses for men to cheat. Blaming it on the evolution, men's Y chromosome. That men will be men, that it's a men's thing. That "men are dumb beasts and all they want is sex." And so most men are just wondering what are all the uproar is about. "You can't expect a man to have sex with only one woman. It's not natural." WHAT BULLSHIT!

And he mentioned that all cultures seem to agree that "men consistently express a fondness for youthful women - full lips, clear and smooth skin, clear eyes, lustrous hair, and good muscle tone, these women are universally sought after."

IT IS JUST SO UNFAIR. WOMEN SACRIFICE SO MUCH, TO GIVE A HEIR TO THEIR MEN, AND IN THE PROGRESS, LOSING THEIR YOUTHFUL BEAUTY JUST TO ENSURE HIS GENE IS CARRY ON.

SO WOULD A FATHER FEEL HAPPY WHEN AN OLDER MAN, OLDER THEN HIM, SEX UP WITH HIS DAUGHTER? AFTER ALL SHE'S YOUTHFUL RIGHT? SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE IDEA, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE FXXXXXX OTHER MEN'S YOUTHFUL DAUGHTER!

The Asian women on the other hand thinks that 'it's better not to know of his affairs. Asian women believe that 'what you don't know, it doesn't hurt'. Is that why our men know that he can get away with it. Because women themselves let them get away with it? I too, am guilty of it.

PS: IF YOU WANT TO READ MORE OF THIS ARTICLE THAT SEEMS TO GIVE THE IMPRESSION THAT "MEN ARE JUST USELESS, JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO THINK ONCE THEIR SMALL HEAD IS IN CONTROL" COPY AND PASTE THE LINK!

http://www.thirdage.com/personal-growth/tiger-transgresses-5-little-known-secrets-to-why-good-men-cheat?page=0%2C0&utm_medium=email&utm_source=nl_relationships-love_20091224&utm_campaign=thirdage