Am not sure if any of you have heard about this “perfect” woman? She’s willowy 5 feet 7 and 120 pounds. She can chat on any subject with you. She can even impersonate personalities of movie stars! Now isn’t that a dream come true for men whose being fantasizing about making out with movie stars! What’s even more important to men, she’s ever ready for sex, anytime! The men won't hear of “Sorry Honey, I have a headache tonight”. Now isn’t that “perfect” to men, who are always so preoccupied with sex! And even more “perfect”, men can just switch her off if she talks too much or if she starts nagging.
Meeeeet Roxxxy, claimed to be the world's most sophisticated talking female sex robot. And she’s yours for life, for only a mere USD7,000!
And as I read this article, I thought this would be “perfect” to women. Think about it. Instead of thinking negatively that men soon can substitute us, real flesh and warm blooded women, am thinking that this might just be a “perfect” gift for husbands!
Imagine a typical working wife’s schedule. She gets up early morning at 6am. Wake up the kids, getting them ready for school. She had to prepare breakfast for the kids. Next tidy up the house before she gets herself ready to leave for office. She spent the next 8 to 10 hours in office. By 6pm, she has to leave to pick up the kids from babysitter. Once home, she cooked simple dinner, had dinner with the kids, cleaned up the kitchen thereafter. Then she puts in the clothes into the washer. Check that the kids do their homework. Then put them to bed. And just as she’s thinking that finally she’s going to have a good night rest, the husband wants to make love.
Am sure some of you, women readers, can relate this to your daily life. How many times, you had to give some excuses. And for some of you, you will accomodate your husband's wishes but with lack of passion as you are just physically, mentally tired. Or worse, you might just fell asleep in the midst of the love making, which is an insult to his ego. And no matter how you try to be the “perfect” woman to him, he can certainly sensed your reluctancy, your lack of enthusiasm.
So now imagine, if the working wife has this “perfect Roxxxy” woman at home. She don’t has to worry that eventually her man is going to get a lover, a mistress or worst still, go to a prostitute! There’s certainly no fear of competition for her of this “perfect Roxxxy” woman. “Perfect Roxxxy” is her temporary ally. “Perfect Roxxxy” can keep him company whilst she enjoy a quiet moment of peace, go for her spa, or spend time with her girlfriends, whilst he gets himself entertained with this “perfect Roxxxy” that will pander to every sex wish that he wants.
So what do you ladies think? Would you be jealous of “perfect Roxxxy” if your man has one?
And if there’s such an ‘emotional companion’ for men, I would like to think that it’ll be great if there’s also an ‘emotional companion’ for women too! Would ladies out there want to owe a “perfect Rocky” too?
For more on “perfect Roxxxy” article, click and copy this link:
http://edition.cnn.com/2010/TECH/02/01/sex.robot/
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Showing posts with label keeping mistress. Show all posts
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Thursday, February 4, 2010
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Married Men has Mistresses. Now Married Women are keeping Mister!
We all heard and talk about how some rich ladies, the 'tai tais' or the 'Datins' that keeps toy boys. Well, this article below confirmed that time has certainly changed. If you remember my posting 'TO CHEAT OR NOT TO CHEAT', it's almost the same case. Our Grace, the typical housewife is contemplating of this 'young hairstylist', Prince to be her toy boy :-). And judging from all the support given in the comments posted from all of you readers, am sure Grace is very much tempted. Am just curious, has she had her first taste of sexual escapade yet?
And would any of you reader (ladies I meant), be tempted to 'keep a Mister'? For first timer, there's always the fear and excitement of been caught. The advice given in this article is that you need an alibi :-). So get your girlfriends hook on to the idea too, IF you are in it already or contemplating.
To me, women being women, there's always the danger of getting emotionally involved. So far, I have yet to hear of any women that said they could just have sex continuously with this same guy without getting emotionally involved. Unless, it's just a one-night stand and how many one night stand that any women or men can find. Be prepared to have heartaches as well as I believe women somehow are still possessive. Doesn’t matter they are cheating, they still want their ‘mister’ to be faithful, all the more if you are keeping this toy boy comfy. I would IF I am doing that!
Here's to more liberated sex for all women this new decade, in this 21st century! Enjoy the article.
To read more, just COPY & PASTE this link :
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6975683.ece
""We discuss the rules of keeping a male mistress, more precisely, a “mister”, in her 4WD during shopping expedition in a smart provincial town. It starts snowing, the engine runs, the heated seats warm the rear of her expensive jeans. She’s tall, dark and good-looking, as much through gym sweat and impeccable grooming as genetic good fortune.
She’s friendly, sweet almost, and buzzing with positive energy. When she talks about a series of intensely physical and largely unemotional relationships with men, she makes it sound demure and ladylike. Even when she is saying something like, “My lovers have to be good-looking and fit. You know, intelligent and fun to be with, and very good at oral sex.”
Jilly has echoes of Vera Farmiga’s character, Alex, in the new George Clooney film Up in the Air. The sexually assured executive aces the similarly no-strings-please Clooney character with the line: “Just think of me as you, but with a vagina.” When he falls in love with her, it is only to discover she is married with kids. Farmiga says she loved the Alex character because, “when a female character is so demanding and unapologetic [sexually], she usually lacks some dignity. It was cool to see someone who was completely self-possessed, had class, had depth and yet was operating in a very masculine way”.
Jilly does not see herself as acting in a very masculine way — rather, as creating the best possible situation to preserve her happiness as an individual, and as part of a well-enough-functioning family unit. “I have a comfortable life, I have a kind husband and lovely children. Why would I hurt them? My husband’s a difficult man, but I am happy. We share our long-standing in-jokes and rows, we are great friends. Every other word bar love describes our marriage.”
Sex with her husband is both rare and unexciting, but she remained completely faithful to him until, quite unexpectedly, she had an affair with a slightly younger widower she plays golf with. “It was liberating, but it was also dangerous. Very consciously, I knew this was good for me. Not long after calling time on the affair I started looking online. I love men, I love their company, yet as a stay-at-home mother you find your only social life is with your kids or girlfriends. But much as I do enjoy getting the odd lovely text from a man, really the only reason I do this is for the sex.
“In choosing a man I am measured and calm. What I want are peccadilloes, not a full-blown affair. You need to find someone you can get to know and feel comfortable with, because things get better when you know someone. I met a lot of men, some just weren’t experienced enough — I never wanted to be a Mrs Robinson figure. Others thought they could handle a married woman, but they’d start feeling guilt, worry and fear of my husband’s shotgun. It’s a delicate balance. You need the chemistry, but you have to watch it — if the chemistry is too good then you will feel like you are falling in love. When the sex gets very intense it tends to seed emotional ties.”
This avoidance of too much emotion seems a key rule in the decorous affair. As one man I know says, “I love a dalliance with an older married woman because they have more to lose than me. We are also wise enough not to get too attached.”
So does Jilly ever feel guilty? “Initially I felt very bad about deceiving my family. I find all the subterfuge awful. Then I thought, sod it, you’ve been an unselfish devoted mother and corporate wife for years. Now I think it does me good, makes me a more pleasant person the rest of the time. If I had a decent sexual relationship with my husband, I wouldn’t do this.”
In the 10 years since she started her extramarital affairs, she has told only one friend, a fellow adulteress, and they provided each other with alibis. Other alibi opportunities come in the form of having genuine hobbies. “You can’t just suddenly make up a new time-consuming passion though, that’s going to look suspicious.”
Mostly, though, she sees her lovers not too frequently, less than once a week, and when her husband is away. She has also found that younger men are the best option. “They have no interest in emotional ties, they are safe, and they are far more likely to consider a woman’s orgasm as important. And they have hair.”
The field of infidelity is a wide one and includes anything from paying for sex to full-blown, head-over-heels, second-life lovers. In Jilly there is a calculated, masculine steel we do not generally associate with feminine love. But there is also a strict and respectful gentleness and respect for preserving the integrity of her love for her family, her husband, and, indeed, herself. In her we see the masculine laws of the mistress redrawn in a more tender feminine way. It is hard to judge her.
THE OTHER SIDE
Arran is a carpenter in his early twenties and got involved with married women when they started brazenly approaching him at gyms. “I don’t want a relationship, and married women are uncomplicated. They know exactly what they want. Some women say they aren’t married, but there are telltale signs — they compartmentalise their lives. Generally they are in their thirties or forties, their husbands have got out of shape or lost interest or are simply not adventurous enough for their wives.
I was in a sporty gang at school, and most of us are at it with married women. To an extent they pass us around. I don’t care. I’ve got two on the go at the moment, one for six months, the other a bit longer. I don’t let them buy me presents. Married women already tend to be very dominant, and I don’t want them having a hold on me.”
Arran’s rules of the game:
(1) Don’t let them control you
(2) Never contact them unless they ask you to
(3) Don’t get hung up about when you are going to see them. Be adaptable and be available during the day
(4) Let them take the lead and tell you what they want
(5) Don’t take it seriously. It’s fun, just enjoy the sex; in my experience, it’s a lot better than any single girl of your own age is going to give you
And would any of you reader (ladies I meant), be tempted to 'keep a Mister'? For first timer, there's always the fear and excitement of been caught. The advice given in this article is that you need an alibi :-). So get your girlfriends hook on to the idea too, IF you are in it already or contemplating.
To me, women being women, there's always the danger of getting emotionally involved. So far, I have yet to hear of any women that said they could just have sex continuously with this same guy without getting emotionally involved. Unless, it's just a one-night stand and how many one night stand that any women or men can find. Be prepared to have heartaches as well as I believe women somehow are still possessive. Doesn’t matter they are cheating, they still want their ‘mister’ to be faithful, all the more if you are keeping this toy boy comfy. I would IF I am doing that!
Here's to more liberated sex for all women this new decade, in this 21st century! Enjoy the article.
To read more, just COPY & PASTE this link :
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article6975683.ece
""We discuss the rules of keeping a male mistress, more precisely, a “mister”, in her 4WD during shopping expedition in a smart provincial town. It starts snowing, the engine runs, the heated seats warm the rear of her expensive jeans. She’s tall, dark and good-looking, as much through gym sweat and impeccable grooming as genetic good fortune.
She’s friendly, sweet almost, and buzzing with positive energy. When she talks about a series of intensely physical and largely unemotional relationships with men, she makes it sound demure and ladylike. Even when she is saying something like, “My lovers have to be good-looking and fit. You know, intelligent and fun to be with, and very good at oral sex.”
Jilly has echoes of Vera Farmiga’s character, Alex, in the new George Clooney film Up in the Air. The sexually assured executive aces the similarly no-strings-please Clooney character with the line: “Just think of me as you, but with a vagina.” When he falls in love with her, it is only to discover she is married with kids. Farmiga says she loved the Alex character because, “when a female character is so demanding and unapologetic [sexually], she usually lacks some dignity. It was cool to see someone who was completely self-possessed, had class, had depth and yet was operating in a very masculine way”.
Jilly does not see herself as acting in a very masculine way — rather, as creating the best possible situation to preserve her happiness as an individual, and as part of a well-enough-functioning family unit. “I have a comfortable life, I have a kind husband and lovely children. Why would I hurt them? My husband’s a difficult man, but I am happy. We share our long-standing in-jokes and rows, we are great friends. Every other word bar love describes our marriage.”
Sex with her husband is both rare and unexciting, but she remained completely faithful to him until, quite unexpectedly, she had an affair with a slightly younger widower she plays golf with. “It was liberating, but it was also dangerous. Very consciously, I knew this was good for me. Not long after calling time on the affair I started looking online. I love men, I love their company, yet as a stay-at-home mother you find your only social life is with your kids or girlfriends. But much as I do enjoy getting the odd lovely text from a man, really the only reason I do this is for the sex.
“In choosing a man I am measured and calm. What I want are peccadilloes, not a full-blown affair. You need to find someone you can get to know and feel comfortable with, because things get better when you know someone. I met a lot of men, some just weren’t experienced enough — I never wanted to be a Mrs Robinson figure. Others thought they could handle a married woman, but they’d start feeling guilt, worry and fear of my husband’s shotgun. It’s a delicate balance. You need the chemistry, but you have to watch it — if the chemistry is too good then you will feel like you are falling in love. When the sex gets very intense it tends to seed emotional ties.”
This avoidance of too much emotion seems a key rule in the decorous affair. As one man I know says, “I love a dalliance with an older married woman because they have more to lose than me. We are also wise enough not to get too attached.”
So does Jilly ever feel guilty? “Initially I felt very bad about deceiving my family. I find all the subterfuge awful. Then I thought, sod it, you’ve been an unselfish devoted mother and corporate wife for years. Now I think it does me good, makes me a more pleasant person the rest of the time. If I had a decent sexual relationship with my husband, I wouldn’t do this.”
In the 10 years since she started her extramarital affairs, she has told only one friend, a fellow adulteress, and they provided each other with alibis. Other alibi opportunities come in the form of having genuine hobbies. “You can’t just suddenly make up a new time-consuming passion though, that’s going to look suspicious.”
Mostly, though, she sees her lovers not too frequently, less than once a week, and when her husband is away. She has also found that younger men are the best option. “They have no interest in emotional ties, they are safe, and they are far more likely to consider a woman’s orgasm as important. And they have hair.”
The field of infidelity is a wide one and includes anything from paying for sex to full-blown, head-over-heels, second-life lovers. In Jilly there is a calculated, masculine steel we do not generally associate with feminine love. But there is also a strict and respectful gentleness and respect for preserving the integrity of her love for her family, her husband, and, indeed, herself. In her we see the masculine laws of the mistress redrawn in a more tender feminine way. It is hard to judge her.
THE OTHER SIDE
Arran is a carpenter in his early twenties and got involved with married women when they started brazenly approaching him at gyms. “I don’t want a relationship, and married women are uncomplicated. They know exactly what they want. Some women say they aren’t married, but there are telltale signs — they compartmentalise their lives. Generally they are in their thirties or forties, their husbands have got out of shape or lost interest or are simply not adventurous enough for their wives.
I was in a sporty gang at school, and most of us are at it with married women. To an extent they pass us around. I don’t care. I’ve got two on the go at the moment, one for six months, the other a bit longer. I don’t let them buy me presents. Married women already tend to be very dominant, and I don’t want them having a hold on me.”
Arran’s rules of the game:
(1) Don’t let them control you
(2) Never contact them unless they ask you to
(3) Don’t get hung up about when you are going to see them. Be adaptable and be available during the day
(4) Let them take the lead and tell you what they want
(5) Don’t take it seriously. It’s fun, just enjoy the sex; in my experience, it’s a lot better than any single girl of your own age is going to give you
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